Enter the Orgasmic Magic Zone ~ OMZone

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I had so much fun during this interview, I regret not recording it. Happy with the article Hannah wrote. Enter the #OMZone!

My first pop-culture encounter with tantric sex was—like so many other “edgy” sexual practices, from threesomes to fetishes—during a “SATC” episode. The women attend a tantric sex workshop in which a white-haired woman massages her elderly, blissed-out husband, who, after some buildup, ejaculates into the air and … onto Miranda. Educational? Sure. An accurate depiction of tantra? Not so much, according to my sources.

Tantra as a broader category refers to the ancient practices and customs of Hinduism. Tantric sex grew out of this larger religious umbrella as a form of ritualized sacred sex—one that may have inherited some of its tenets or inspiration from tantra, but which most proponents of Hinduism and Buddhism deny sharing much heritage with the religion. So everything you’ll learn here is in the context of tantric sex as it exists today, casually and unofficially—it has no affiliation with a religion, culture, or organization. It’s a practice that is shared and passed down, and followed with devotion by the people whose lives—and sex lives—it has changed for the better.
I spoke to California-based Advanced Certified Tantra Educator Mare Simone, ACTE a teacher at the Source School of Tantra, who gave me her own definition of tantric sex. “The first words that come to mind are a real, true coming together,” she says. “It’s when women learn to fully feel their body’s sexual needs and desires, allowing them to become much more orgasmic than they usually are. And men slow down and learn how to harness their sexual power so they can ride the orgasmic wave together, rather than coming quickly, which they’re hard-wired to do.” London-based tantric sex instructor Rebecca Lowrie is quick to point out that a tantric experience isn’t just sexual, either. “It’s really a spiritual path that embraces sexuality,” she says. “It’s a path of letting go of fear, shame, and conditioning so that you can be your full self. It provides a framework and set of resources for being utterly present and therefore intimate with life.”

When Mare described her idea of a successful tantric sexual experience, I was in awe. “I think a woman should have at least two, or even three orgasms before sexual penetration even begins.” Say what?! “When the roots of the clitoris are fully engorged after orgasm, penetration is so much more desirable for a woman and much more pleasurable for men. There’s more contact, the vagina is juicy, wet, and might even involve the female ejaculation that can send a man into seventh heaven.” OK, listening…

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How all of this actually goes down is both mysterious and intriguing as hell. “I call it the orgasmic magic zone—the OM zone,” says Simone. “It can happen with partners, but also on your own. It’s an erotic sexual meditation, a zone you can feel even before touch begins when you’re in tune with your orgasm energy, through breathing and muscles that pump through your whole pelvic region and make it engorge.” It works for both men and women, she says. When you come this way, especially with a partner through penetration, the orgasm has a deeper, whole-body quality, and lasts much longer, she explains.

“It’s so much more emotionally, spiritually, and physically satisfying,” she says. “You can even go into a deep, meditative healing state. Sometimes old emotional traumas or wounds come up and are cleared through that orgasmic energy. That’s when tantric sex becomes what I would call magical and distinct from just pump and grind, get it off and go to sleep.” Oh, and men don’t necessarily have to ejaculate—but that doesn’t mean they don’t come.
“Really, men should have fewer climaxes and more orgasms,” says Simone, “because if he ejaculates on the first orgasm, there’s nothing left.” But if a man internally ejaculates—yep, that’s a thing, it’s called injaculating—without releasing semen, “he’s reinvesting in his own erotic bank account. That serves him sexually, making his orgasms much more powerful, and even gives him more energy, rather than making him feel depleted and want to roll over.” So really, if that old couple had been properly tantra-ing in “SATC,” the man wouldn’t have shot his load all over Miranda.

After picking Simone’s brain as much as I could, I asked her for a couple of tantric rituals that can be tried at home—alone, or with a partner—for the curious newbies among us.

Beginner’s Tantra for One: Self-Love Initiation
On a day when you want to honor yourself, start a Jacuzzi or bath to wash away the day. Make your bed as you would for a lover—laid out beautifully with candles, towels, or toys. This sets the stage for a special ritual. After the cleansing bubble bath, begin to caress your inner thighs and up and around your genitals, without trying to come. “Just feel what your sexual body center needs,” says Simone. “Invoke self-loving communication.”

Make a yoni mudra (“sacred position of power”) with your hands, letting your index fingers touch right at the tip of your clitoris, and the tips of your thumbs touching over your pubic bone. It should look like a heart shape. “Meditate in that place,” she says. “This position creates a tremendous amount of power, so feel the circuitry connect over your vagina with your hands in the mudra, pumping thoughts of love and appreciation into that area while breathing deeply.”

The next stage might be a massage, but not with the goal of orgasm. “This is like the antithesis of masturbation,” says Simone. “Give yourself loving pleasure with your hands, rather than a vibrator. The beautify is that later, when a woman wants to guide a partner to find those sacred places in her, she’ll know how to teach him or her what her body needs because she listened to it.”

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Beginner’s Tantra for Two: Maximum Pleasure
Look into each other’s eyes. Breathe deeply. Take turns caressing each other’s hands one at a time, one finger at a time. Notice and talk about all the feelings in each hand. Then move on to the face. Touch, kiss, and learn about all of the feelings in different areas—the cheek, the forehead, the chin.

“There are so many parts of us represented in our hands and face—every organ and chakra,” says Simone. “For those who like feet, every toe can be an erogenous zone. It’s not about manually stimulating each other’s genitals; it’s about the tender places that need to be touched. These places are hidden some of the time, so they hold secrets and feelings, and can be so erotic when they’re touched the right way, with communication and a lot of attention.”

Pay attention to unlikely locations: The arches of feet, the soft spots between each finger and toe, the cracks of the elbows, the crease behind the knees. Use fingertips or whole hands or soft scratching of nails—use every nuance of touch to create maximum pleasure. Guide your partner to find the maximum amount of pleasure in every place that he or she goes, explaining what feels good and requesting the things you want them to try.
“The exercise is to say what feels good and ask for more of that until you get it right—even if it’s just saying, ‘It feels really good that you want to discover what feels good to me,’” says Simone. The goal of this ritual is to create a safe environment where you and your partner feel comfortable experiencing things you’ve never felt before and establishing vulnerability and intimacy. “When this happens, the depth of connection that can happen is really profound.”

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I’m fascinated and compelled by the knowledge that the energy of orgasm is a powerful creative life-force. The power that creates life — when directed properly, can also positively impact whatever we choose to create with it. Including our health and overall quality-of-life.

Sexual energy is healing as the primordial energy that created all the cells in our bodies.

Including the stem cells as orgasmic energy created the stem cells. When used wisely. Orgasmic energy has the potential power to heal our bodies. To energize and revitalize! This a powerful knowledge. HIGH Sex is the most powerful elixir of life.

People who are active sexually have a 50% less chance of getting heart attacks, Alzheimer’s and other degenerative diseases are reversed or prevented. Both men and women who are sexually active live longer, stronger healthier lives.

I’ve seen some major transformations in my own life and the people around me. I know the wisdom within our bodies; that we access thru tantra and similar practices is much more powerful than most can imagine. Our ability to heal and transform ourselves and the world around us has barely begun to be fully understood and tapped into.

In 27 years of practice I’ve experienced many people’s lives transformed and heal as they realign with their source.  Our innate truth and purpose become crystal-clear in highly aroused orgasmic states. And great shifts and successes arise out of a state of peaceful pleasure. Athletes who ride the high waves the of orgasmic bliss without releasing their essence have been proven to have greater scores than those who did not practice high Tantric sex.

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My point of view is less rigid then Taoists or austere classical tantra, which suggest that men should abstain from ejaculating, I believe that when a man experiences whole body orgasms that fill up his body and brain with tingling sensations of energy… That even if there is an ejaculation occurring at the end of such a session, the loss of energy is much less than if the release occurred quickly in a fast and feverish blow.

In what we’re talking about is the alchemy of sex the transformation of orgasmic energy into other manifestations. The power to create can be harnessed and developed and used in many ways. This is a birthright for each and every one of us to gather and cultivate our own life forces and draw from them as we would invest our resources in valuable investments that grow with interest.

So wouldn’t it make sense to learn to harness the power of creative energy so that you can build your own reservoir that keeps you impassioned? Your pool of creative life forces can be used to invest in yourself and in your endeavors!

I have been teaching these skills to men and women on phone and Skype with great success for many years – in addition to teaching this in person.

Therefore I’m completely thrilled to announce that I will be providing teleseminar series where I will teach coach guide and support a group of you to expand and explore your whole body orgasmic ability together… Alone! In the privacy of your own home that is but you won’t be alone because will all be coming together for these phenomenal events!

 

Pleasure Immersion Experience

Time for you! Be nurtured and get revitalized. Bathed in blissful massage for a whole body reboot!

Live in passion! Immerse in pleasure for a day or more… Your private get-away. Succeed where you channel your turn-on!

PIE will allow you to be totally immersed in pleasure of Tantric bliss all through the night and into the next day.

Golf or Beach combined with pleasure – great combos for the perfect getaway.

We start with energizing practices to fully awaken your body, clear your mind and emotions and prepare you for heightened states of pleasure. Healthy foods, yoga, dancing, bathing and massage awaken your deep, divine delicious, Inner Lover!!

Embark on this journey of awakening your erotic awareness.

Increase the joy in your life with love and laughter in your bedroom!

Experience long-lasting pleasure in love and life.

Enjoy your whole PIE in Tantra Heaven with me!

Stay for a day or a few to fully focus on you to be filled with loving energy.

Enjoy a 2 bd/2ba condo or make other arrangements as you wish. You can stay in the guest room with confirmed full or half day session.

Couples get the Master Suite with a large Jacuzzi tub for heightened pleasure – small fee for rooms, negotiable.

Tantra -The Main Event in Chicago! Sept. 26-28, 2014

September 26-28, 2014

The Beginners Weekend Seminar is a wonderful introduction to the transformative powers of Tantra Yoga. In a safe (no nudity) environment you will learn how to use sexual energy for increased intimacy, spiritual connection, and pleasure beyond your imagination.

You will begin to master the many methods of regeneration so you can make love well into your old age, keeping you young for many years to come. Open to Singles and Couples!

Here are a few of the weekend Goodies…

♥ Breathing in lovemaking ~ key to ecstasy
♥ Touching ~ 6 kinds of healing and erotic touch
♥ Tired of dating? Discover the skills to attract the Beloved
♥ Learn how your eyes, words, emotions, and vulnerability can bring you to intimacy bliss!
Freeing the female orgasm~ it’s easy!
♥ 1,001 methods of exquisite pelvic movement
♥ Sexual awakening for men ~ the Secret that can Quadruple the length and power of your orgasm
♥ Advanced lovemaking techniques you will use forever
♥ Female sacred spot massage ritual ~ step-by-step instructions to heal, awaken, and release unlimited energy
♥ Internal muscular exercises for increased energy and pleasure, and so much more…

Cost: $495

Click here to register

Questions?

Lakshmi Devi Luster:
888.682.6872, Ext. 119
chicago@sourcetantra.com

Sacred, Sensual Sunday Workshop in LA

Intimate Tantra Talk & Whole Body O, Ecstasy Breath 

Oct. 5, 2014 Sacred, Sensual Sunday Workshop

 

Calling All Tantra Explorers ~ Couples and Singles welcome!

2-IN-1

You are invited to an afternoon of enlightening Tantra-talk, Solo and Partner Practices, Whole Body Energy O’s ~ Ecstatic Breath Technique to heal, awaken and activate the Whole Body!

Plus a taste of yummy Tantra Yoga Massage – led by Mare Simone, Advanced, Certified Tantra Educator.

 

Delicious healthy community feasting ~ Open to the first 20 who register here!

 

Bring:  Something soft to lie on for the ecstatic breath practice such as: Yoga mat, sheepskin rug or small futon AND sheet, sarong or towel to lie on

 

Bring: Foods to share. What’s your favorite healthy dish? 

 

Please co-ordinate with us so we have a balanced spread

 

Eager to share — looking forward to see you there!

 

Where:

At a private home in Topanga Canyon – Signs will be posted –

Directions and details will be supplied upon registration. 


JOIN US – Sign-up NOW! 

 


 

Sexual Healing : The Tantra Way (DVD)

Charles Muir, the originator of “Sacred Spot Massage”, shares from his 35 years of practice and mastery what it takes to be a successful sexual healer.  You will learn the 108 qualities that a Daka or Dakini (sexual high priest/priestess) must manifest within themselves to become a master.

Secrets of Female Ecstasy DVD

with Charles & Caroline Muir

  • Secrets of Erotic Kissing and Touch
  • Facts about Male Ejaculatory Choice, a Key to Creating Maximum Lovemaking Health, Creativity, and Power
  • Detailed Instructions for Female Sacred Spot (G-Spot) Massage
  • Female Ejaculation – The Truth about Amrita, the Divine Nectar

Whole Body O’s

I’m fascinated and compelled by the knowledge that the energy of orgasm is a powerful creative life-force. That the very powers that creates life — when directed properly,love out loud can also positively impact our health and empower the overall quality-of-life.

Sexual energy is healing as the primordial energy that created all the cells in our bodies. Including the stem cells so orgasmic energy is thereby potentially more powerful than stem cells.

When used intelligently. Orgasmic energy has the potential power to heal our bodies. To energize and revitalize! This a powerful elixir of life.

People Who are active sexually have a 50% less chance of getting heart attacks, Alzheimer’s and other degenerative diseases are reversed or prevented. Both men and women who are sexually active live longer, stronger healthier lives.

I’ve seen some major transformations in my own life and the people around me. I know the wisdom within our bodies; that we access thru tantra and similar practices is much more powerful than most can imagine. Our ability to heal and transform ourselves and the world around us has barely begun to be tapped into.

In 27 years of practice I’ve experienced multitudes of people’s lives spontaneously heal as they realign with their source. Innate truth and purpose become crystal-clear in highly aroused orgasmic states. And great shifts and successes arise out of a state of peaceful pleasure. Athletes who ride the high waves the of orgasmic bliss without releasing their essence have been proven to have greater scores than those who did not practice high Tantric sex.

Omar Garrison in his book, “Tantra, the Yoga of Sex” sites research in this remarkable arena.

My point of view is a little less austere then Taoists and the classical tantra, which suggests that men should abstain from ejaculating, I believe that when a man experiences whole body orgasms that fill up his body and brain with tingling
sensations of energy… That even if there is an ejaculation occurring at the end of such a session, the loss of energy is much less than if the release occurred quickly in a fast and feverish blow.

In what we’re talking about is the alchemy of sex the transformation of orgasmic energy into other manifestations. The power to create can be harnessed and developed and used in many ways. This is a birthright for each and every one of us to gather and cultivate our own life forces and draw from them as we would invest our resources in valuable investments that grow with interest.

So wouldn’t it make sense to learn to harness the power of creative energy so that you can build your own reservoir that keeps you impassioned? Your pool of creative life forces can be used to invest in yourself and in your endeavors!

I have been teaching these skills to men and women on phone and Skype with great success for many years – in addition to teaching this in person.

Therefore I’m completely thrilled to announce that I will be providing teleseminar series where I will teach, coach, guide, and support a group of you to expand and explore your whole body orgasmic ability together… Alone! In the privacy of your own home that is but you won’t be alone because will all be coming together for these phenomenal events!

If you can’t make it, register and you will receive a free recording! You want this recording!

Tantric Law of Attraction – Ritual for Full Moon Activation

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Throughout history in many different cultures moon cycles were regarded as times to align and focus energies for fruition in some area. A lunar eclipse intensifies these energies of fruition which make it an ideal time to practice some Tantric sex magic. Tantra offers practices where channeling orgasmic energy has the potential to supercharge our reality with energizing and rejuvenating life forces. The very same life force that created you has the power to fuel your visions with creative life forces.

Channeling Orgasmic Energy is the same as what Napoleon Hill refers to as Sexual Transmutation in his infamous book, Think and Grow Rich – transmuting energy from one area to another or directing the energy to get the most benefit and value from it. In the Tantric tradition, the practice of empowering pleasure with intention, not only gives the pleasure a conscious purpose which has a tendency to increase the pleasure magically and wonderfully… It also attracts and perpetuates the energy of pleasure and positivity which exudes magnetic attraction to everything in your sphere of influence.

We influence our reality by our every thought. Thoughts that are infused with orgasmic pleasure tend to be highly magnetic. So think of what you want to draw into your life with this powerful magnetic field being activated by a full moon lunar eclipse… square Neptune – the cosmic dreamer!

RITUAL:

Begin by preparing your body and your spirit for deep receptivity and magnetizing by doing a ritual cleanse. anything having to do with water is beneficial as water provides us with the state of deep relaxation and peacefulness that will enhance our magnetic field. take a dip in the pool or Jacuzzi or better yet if possible and natural environment like a Lake River or the ocean. A simple shower or bath will also do the trick… before stepping into the water charge it up with a thought that holds the energy of what you want to attract or create in your life if it’s perfect health, make a prayer statement of intention that this water will remove the toxins and purify your body to enable it to establish perfect health… If your intention is to be a money magnet or attract the beloved; let your statement of intention suggests that the water cleanse all obstacles from you and hold you back from having the dream partner, position or whatever else you wish to attract. Then step into the water and surrender to its fluidity keeping that thought in the back of your mind.

Then prepare your body for pleasure by relaxing with movements perhaps some yoga stretches, dance or whatever else puts you in touch with your body. I like to include Tantric massage whether by myself or with a partner. Tantric massage is relaxing but also arousing first addressing any tightness or tension in the body and releasing that. And then by drawing strokes upward and inward toward the major erogenous zones up the thighs toward the creative/sexual center where life is born. Holding the vision of your intention again in your mind what you wish to create gently and lovingly caress your sexual center and your breasts on up to and around your face neck and head, caressing your entire body or your partners if you are doing this exercise with a partner to awaken arousal in a gentle way that encourages deep, relaxed arousal. The more relaxed you are, the more aroused you can be. Relaxed arousal is the magic component that allows your mind to focus on your intention rather than trying to control your Sexual stimulation.

Allow yourself, or your partner to reach a heightened state of arousal through these relaxed, gentle caressing strokes he bringing the intensity up to a heightened state of an eight and pausing to keep from going over the edge. When you have gained your composure continue the caresses with the intent of maintaining that heightened state of arousal as long as you comfortably can peaking several times without climaxing. Each time holding the vision of what you wish to attract into your life in an image that perceives you having this experience right here and now… Holding that image combined with your aroused sensual state will infuse your desire with a high notes of positive magnetic energy…

I suggest that you can enjoy this state of relaxed aroused intentional bliss for as long as you like with several peaks. Should you choose to climax at the end of this ritual, please do so with passion filled expressions of pleasure while visualizing your intention clearly and in your mind as if it were already so.  In the afterglow of your peak use your aroused fluids consciously anoint your four head to imprint this combination will intention with relaxed arousal into the frontal lobe of your brain, bringing pleasure and positivity in harmony with all that you wish for in your life. Blessings and bliss on this empowering ritual! May your desired dreams come true!!

PS:  It’s equally important to drink water that has also been charged with this intention to infuse yourself internally as well in this vision intention. before drinking, make a wish like you would before blowing out a birthday candle and then drink the wish within the water!

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