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Yoni Wisdom: Healing Touch

When it’s time to blossom…
TRANSFORM Numbness and Pain, to AWAKEN Sacred Pleasure
Some women feel pain with sex inside especially with deep, hard penetration all the way to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not fully open and receptive. Potential pleasure is not accessible, rather retreated like a turtle in a shell.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If sadness or anger occurs, pour love into her eyes and kiss her gentle and loving. Don’t tell her to stop crying. Rather give her space to feel and release the past pain so she can be free to be fully present in the joy of authentic intimacy.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our hearts and sex organs. Especially when we can stay conscious with our eyes open so we can see, here and feel to fully absorb the love that we’re making.
 
But often love brings up everything unlike itself, in order to be healed.
That’s part of the process, and why it’s so important to stay present, and understand as a giver you are there to hold space.  Give her room to rage if she needs, until she gets it out of her system and then that rage turns into liberated passion. 
 
Beware of the lure of dark patterns that can get lodged rather than released. If it seems to go on longer than necessary, remind her and yourself, to breathe in the love in the present moment.
Conscious breaths where there is love presence can have a deep and impactful healing effect when the heart holds stagnant moments and memories.
Recognize its value in the here and now, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. Just ground yourself in your breath and encourage her to believe 3 breathe deeply and release whatever is blocking her with a sound . Sound is a magical component because it expresses the very energy that a person is feeling without the words to analyze it or judge.
Vocalizing will help to empower her to express and release stuck energy. Try to mimic her sounds so you can feel her vibration which aligns you onto the same frequency of feeling. It’s very primal body talk powerful healing and super sexy at the same time.
Pour love into painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our love-tunnel. That includes the base chakra anal massage as well.
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace phantom pains and fears with conscious present love. It’s a healing that no doctor can provide. A beloved or Tantric healer can touch these places in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic and even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a  wand-like tool. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a phallus of rose quartz, for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slowly with stillness… pause with pressure whenever there is tension to soften tight tissue and release old memories of fear and pain.
Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
Is it time to say so long to old armored past and related phantom pain, which no longer serves you? Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Healing through self-love is an extremely important and powerful part of the process.
You most likely will find it helpful to have a guide to support you through the darkest shadows of harbored emotions.  Sometimes it’s hard to see our light in the shadows.
I used to have that issue wreck havoc in my love-life until I learned to trust enough to relax completely. This requires an immense amount of willingness and the desire to open,  breathe, and allow feelings to flow. Move through the pain and numbness of the past by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really when you release the past. Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
The release of tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure is pure and sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful orgasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open and be filled with full penetration without any resistance. 
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
To feel inside of a woman’s sex, first meet her with your breath, your lips, tones, and then touch. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the very depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can expand to receive your love fully!
Such wondrous mysteries women can awaken within! When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious partner into our deepest most vulnerable parts, we can be in hours of bliss within. Then sex becomes a luscious meditation on the energy of ecstasy.

Luscious Living a Sacred, Sensual Sojourn

Leave your shoes and worries at the door.
I arrived at the Source Tantra Boulder Creek Sanctuary, in the awe inspiring Santa Cruz Mountains greeted by Buddha, who reminded me to leave my shoes and worries at the door.
Then Charles welcomes me with a warm embrace and a hot bath that was ready and waiting for me.  After driving eight hours from Palm Desert this was an oasis to my tired body.

I quickly leapt out of my clothes and slipped into the deep, steaming waters.  Ahhhh it’s so wonderful to be with someone who appreciates the sensual and nurturing pleasures of life as much as I do. Quite refreshing after having just been in the desert where the heat was rapidly climbing. It was 110° when I left!  Now nearly half that, I’m grateful for hot bathes, slippers and fireplaces!

As  I soaked, he prepared some lovely shiitake mushroom raviolis in a cream sauce and served me.  Truly in tantra heaven, we shared some wonderful Tantric massage and connections… the most profound of which were so subtle that our energies matched and activated the other through thought, breath and light, conscious touch.  I remembered what it felt like to be so aware and alive in my skin.   I realize again, how important the nurturing work I do truly is… especially when I get to be the receiver.

Charles gifted me with a beautiful candle holder made of clay and shaped like a yoni with an elephant head for the pearl.  The elephant is Ganesh who represents going beyond all obstacles. He blessed it as he gave it to me telling me to light it when I am ready to commence rewriting my book.

Before going to sleep last night I prayed for a win-win to bring about the most beneficial value for all concerned with regard to all the publicity that I’ve been getting and will continue to get as I tour.

When I awoke the next morning, the first thought that came to my mind was a clear statement: write a tantric travel guide for lovers!

So here at my tantra teachers Temple I begin, and while I travel across the globe… over the next few months, I will blog my journeys and share with you my views on the most wonderful places, foods and services I discover along my Sensual Sojourn through life.

I would love for you to join me here or interact with me and if you have or know of any deliciously orgasmic restaurants… or packaged treats… especially arousing beverages… natural aphrodisiacs… or another recipes for love!!!!!

Or if you can share extraordinary romantic locations in nature… tantra temples… resorts, spas or environments that are especially conducive to making love more magical, please send your photos, videos and reviews.

Everyone loves authentic and helpful reviews, so please PLEASE share your favorites, and you will be well rewarded in Tantra Heaven!!

If yours is chosen you will get of course free publicity on my blog, along with special personal expressions of appreciation from me, which will be situation specific and always a yummy surprise!  I may even share with you some of my most secret favorites in exchange!

PLEASE visit often as I will be updating and posting pictures video clips of private paradises that I find myself in.
I will be here through the end of June, offering private sessions and a Beginners Tantra Workshop, co-facilitating with Charles Muir, in his private sanctuary in the Santa Cruz Mountains.  Private Sessions & Tantric Coaching is available here with me or Charles Muir or Leah Alchin, when in town.


June 25-27th
in beautiful Boulder Creek, Santa Cruz Mts. Click for more…
Overnight account accommodations are conveniently available in the Boulder Creek golf resort just a few blocks away.

I first took this beginner tantra seminar with Charles + Caroline Muir 17 years ago.

It changed my life radically in ways in which I am eternally grateful and so I would love to share that experience with you.  The beginners course focuses on intimacy and expanding pleasure, awakening and freeing the female in all her glory! This course has provided amazing breakthroughs for many women and couples.
And profound aha’s for men who want to be better lovers.

On Sunday we’ll discuss the range of pleasure and possibilities for men which continues in Level II which focuses on Men receiving private sessions with women graduates.

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