Yoni Wisdom and Deep Pleasures

To feel inside of a woman with your soul, feel first with your touch, breath, lips, tongue and tones. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can receive to her ecstasy fully! What wondrous mysteries women can awaken within!? When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious man into our deepest most vulnerable parts we can be in hours of bliss within Then sex becomes a luscious meditation.
When Pleasure is Pain
Some women feel pain deep inside with deep hard penetration all the way in, to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not relaxed.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If tears arise pour love into her eyes and kiss those tears or something equally romantic and loving. Whatever you do, don’t give her a tissue right away and tell her to stop crying.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our heart if we can be conscious with our eyes open and see feel here and absorb the love that were receiving.
 
Sometimes it brings up everything unlike itself in order to be healed. That’s part of the process, stay with her and understand that it’s not about you. Give her room to rage if she needs, for a minute or two.
 
But don’t linger long in the darkness. Recognize its value for bringing you here and now and bring her back with love, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. It still helps if you encourage her to make some noise and release stuck energy without judgment.
 
Pour love into the painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our sex-tunnel[s]. That includes the base chakra as well
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace those phantom fears with conscious present love. It’s a deep spot no doctor can touch. A beloved [Tantric healer] can touch this cervix Om-Zone in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a blessed wand of light. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a hand-carved phallus of rose quartz for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slow with stillness pauses often to soften tight tissue and release memories of fear and pain. Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
It may be time to say so long to old armored past phantom pain, which no longer serves you.
 
Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Self healing through self love is an important and powerful part of the process. You may also require a guide to support you through the darkest parts.
 
Or to give you a kick start, at some point along the way. Sometimes it’s hard to see our own shadow in the proper perspective
 
I used to have that issue big time, until I learned to relax completely. Which takes trust and the ability to relax and soften, breathe and relax even move through the pain and numbness by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really are after you start to release the past.
 
Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
 
The release of all that tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure as sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful gasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open to full penetration without an ounce of resistance.
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
 

Luscious Living a Sacred, Sensual Sojourn

Leave your shoes and worries at the door.
I arrived at the Source Tantra Boulder Creek Sanctuary, in the awe inspiring Santa Cruz Mountains greeted by Buddha, who reminded me to leave my shoes and worries at the door.
Then Charles welcomes me with a warm embrace and a hot bath that was ready and waiting for me.  After driving eight hours from Palm Desert this was an oasis to my tired body.

I quickly leapt out of my clothes and slipped into the deep, steaming waters.  Ahhhh it’s so wonderful to be with someone who appreciates the sensual and nurturing pleasures of life as much as I do. Quite refreshing after having just been in the desert where the heat was rapidly climbing. It was 110° when I left!  Now nearly half that, I’m grateful for hot bathes, slippers and fireplaces!

As  I soaked, he prepared some lovely shiitake mushroom raviolis in a cream sauce and served me.  Truly in tantra heaven, we shared some wonderful Tantric massage and connections… the most profound of which were so subtle that our energies matched and activated the other through thought, breath and light, conscious touch.  I remembered what it felt like to be so aware and alive in my skin.   I realize again, how important the nurturing work I do truly is… especially when I get to be the receiver.

Charles gifted me with a beautiful candle holder made of clay and shaped like a yoni with an elephant head for the pearl.  The elephant is Ganesh who represents going beyond all obstacles. He blessed it as he gave it to me telling me to light it when I am ready to commence rewriting my book.

Before going to sleep last night I prayed for a win-win to bring about the most beneficial value for all concerned with regard to all the publicity that I’ve been getting and will continue to get as I tour.

When I awoke the next morning, the first thought that came to my mind was a clear statement: write a tantric travel guide for lovers!

So here at my tantra teachers Temple I begin, and while I travel across the globe… over the next few months, I will blog my journeys and share with you my views on the most wonderful places, foods and services I discover along my Sensual Sojourn through life.

I would love for you to join me here or interact with me and if you have or know of any deliciously orgasmic restaurants… or packaged treats… especially arousing beverages… natural aphrodisiacs… or another recipes for love!!!!!

Or if you can share extraordinary romantic locations in nature… tantra temples… resorts, spas or environments that are especially conducive to making love more magical, please send your photos, videos and reviews.

Everyone loves authentic and helpful reviews, so please PLEASE share your favorites, and you will be well rewarded in Tantra Heaven!!

If yours is chosen you will get of course free publicity on my blog, along with special personal expressions of appreciation from me, which will be situation specific and always a yummy surprise!  I may even share with you some of my most secret favorites in exchange!

PLEASE visit often as I will be updating and posting pictures video clips of private paradises that I find myself in.
I will be here through the end of June, offering private sessions and a Beginners Tantra Workshop, co-facilitating with Charles Muir, in his private sanctuary in the Santa Cruz Mountains.  Private Sessions & Tantric Coaching is available here with me or Charles Muir or Leah Alchin, when in town.


June 25-27th
in beautiful Boulder Creek, Santa Cruz Mts. Click for more…
Overnight account accommodations are conveniently available in the Boulder Creek golf resort just a few blocks away.

I first took this beginner tantra seminar with Charles + Caroline Muir 17 years ago.

It changed my life radically in ways in which I am eternally grateful and so I would love to share that experience with you.  The beginners course focuses on intimacy and expanding pleasure, awakening and freeing the female in all her glory! This course has provided amazing breakthroughs for many women and couples.
And profound aha’s for men who want to be better lovers.

On Sunday we’ll discuss the range of pleasure and possibilities for men which continues in Level II which focuses on Men receiving private sessions with women graduates.

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