Yoni Wisdom and Deep Pleasures

To feel inside of a woman with your soul, feel first with your touch, breath, lips, tongue and tones. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can receive to her ecstasy fully! What wondrous mysteries women can awaken within!? When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious man into our deepest most vulnerable parts we can be in hours of bliss within Then sex becomes a luscious meditation.
When Pleasure is Pain
Some women feel pain deep inside with deep hard penetration all the way in, to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not relaxed.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If tears arise pour love into her eyes and kiss those tears or something equally romantic and loving. Whatever you do, don’t give her a tissue right away and tell her to stop crying.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our heart if we can be conscious with our eyes open and see feel here and absorb the love that were receiving.
 
Sometimes it brings up everything unlike itself in order to be healed. That’s part of the process, stay with her and understand that it’s not about you. Give her room to rage if she needs, for a minute or two.
 
But don’t linger long in the darkness. Recognize its value for bringing you here and now and bring her back with love, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. It still helps if you encourage her to make some noise and release stuck energy without judgment.
 
Pour love into the painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our sex-tunnel[s]. That includes the base chakra as well
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace those phantom fears with conscious present love. It’s a deep spot no doctor can touch. A beloved [Tantric healer] can touch this cervix Om-Zone in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a blessed wand of light. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a hand-carved phallus of rose quartz for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slow with stillness pauses often to soften tight tissue and release memories of fear and pain. Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
It may be time to say so long to old armored past phantom pain, which no longer serves you.
 
Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Self healing through self love is an important and powerful part of the process. You may also require a guide to support you through the darkest parts.
 
Or to give you a kick start, at some point along the way. Sometimes it’s hard to see our own shadow in the proper perspective
 
I used to have that issue big time, until I learned to relax completely. Which takes trust and the ability to relax and soften, breathe and relax even move through the pain and numbness by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really are after you start to release the past.
 
Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
 
The release of all that tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure as sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful gasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open to full penetration without an ounce of resistance.
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
 

Charles Muir rewired my Body/Brain, with Conscious Touch

afterglowAt the Level 4 Associates Tantra Teacher Training in Santa Cruz, CA mountains, Charles Muir selected me to be a demo partner for an advanced level of healing that he has been researching and developing. It combines the powers of tantric, healing touch with stimulation of various neuro centers in the brain. He’s connecting the neuro-circuitry of the body to the brain to further accelerate the affects of what was already a profound practice into an ever greater expansion of healing through touch! I know that thought creates and attracts so I was preparing my mind and body to be activated to awaken to higher, unlimited version of myself. When asked  do I believe in magic, I replied, ” Magic is a conscious application of the power of attraction in action. Thought combined with highly charged creative, sexual energy is the most magnetic and magical force of all!”

It was a sunny afternoon and we just finished a luscious gourmet lunch… I decided to walk to class to help digest and prepare myself for the demo that was about to blessed me and the classroom with profoundly intimate and awesome  demonstration of the power of healing touch combined with intentions. Strolling downhill from house to the Boulder Creek conference room, I the first called in the spirit of all my ancestors to join me in this healing celebration. I could feel the lineage of my family beginning with my recently departed sister along with my mother and her mother; my father and his mother as well as my beloved Aunt Sadie, who was as adventurous as me. I even called in all my angels and guides. I was ready for a big shift to take place and felt I needed an army of support to guide me.  I was willing and eager to invite profound magic into my body to help me become more fully empowered, heal and awakened priestess of pleasure and the sacred erotic arts!

Upon entering the room I could feel all their energies as well as the support of the crew, 25 of the most dedicated practitioners of the Source Tantra School sitting in a circle with a large bed in the center and beautiful flowers adorning pillows. Anticipation filled my veins and I began to tremble and here at the remarkable conscious preparation that went into making this space sacred. Charles gave a brief introduction to my physical situation – I’ve had fibroid tumors on my uterus for many years which have caused me some pain and discomfort as well as being an obstruction to pleasure.

Presence was palpable as I surrendered into the pillows and stated my intentions and my belief in magic and love combined with powerful intent, he worked on my back at first pointing out the imbalance in my sacral dimples. I moaned as I felt my body let go while he touched places that  harbored pain, numbness and blocks of fear. I melted as he rocked me and pressed on the places that needed conscious contact to release the obstructions. Yes even we healers need healing.

When I rolled over my mind and body were over receptive to the wild ride that ensued. I felt rivers of love flow through me washing blocks of my past with blessed Amrita, the nectar of the Goddess! Like a volcano erupting, tears and laughter roared through my body uncontrollably as I affirmed that I am abundant and rich in the extraordinary ability call in radiant health, love and support on all levels.

What happened after that is too powerful for words but it rocked the room and everyone in it. Then Charles called in a team of supporters to hold my hands and points on my head which grounded and helped integrate the explosion of light that came through me. They adorned my body with flowers and I felt reborn… I never laughed and cried so much in my entire life! Tears well in my eyes and gratitude in my heart as I share these precious memories with you.

 

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