S£X Reimagined – What is Possible?

I discovered profoundly DEEP states within me along with new depths of expanding O’s. I’m delighted to say that I never stop learning. 

So, I’m super excited to announce that I’ll be sharing much more on that in this great gathering of Sexperts. I invite you to join us and learn from the best!

S£x Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd, AND it’s FREE!!

I’m sharing my most recent and passionate discoveries around cervical orgasms, as part of it, Stay tuned to find out more. (Or just reply and I’ll tell you more, privately.)

So, if you are feeling stuck or at a loss for inspiration in your intimate life…

Have you been having routine s£x, unsatisfying s£x, or no s£x at all for far too long?

I’ve got a solution for you! It’s all about reimagining what’s possible when it comes to your s£xuality.

I was recently invited to speak on an interview series, on Cervical Orgasms as a Portal to Profound Pleasure! This interview series is one that I know is going to make a huge impact on the way we as human beings relate to our s£xuality.

And because this is my next level, I thought it was so perfect to share this publicly for the first time on the S£x Reimagined Summit.

Let me introduce you to the Hosts of the event: Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Collectively they bring over 40 years of experience, as they blend the ancient arts of Tantra Yoga and Taoist S£xology.

Dr. Willow and Leah are birthing the S£x Reimagined Summit (followed by ongoing Podcasts).

Our aim is to inspire, reignite and reimagine what it means for you to have a thriving love life, because they know it’s the fastest, most pleasurable path to healing your body and soul.

They’ve brought together over 20+ leading S£xsperts, so that you can hear a myriad of perspectives, ideas and possibilities when it comes to expanding your s£xual repetior!

I’m so excited to speak at THIS summit!

Myself along with the 20+ other speakers will be opening up a conversation about how we can reimagine our relationship to s£x, how we talk about it, how we think about it and how we approach it. Share this event with your friends!

The fun begins JULY 11th- 22nd, AND if you enroll now, it’s FREE!

You will get access to all the leading Sexperts in the field of health, sexuality and spirituality.

Guest S£xperts Include:

Charles Muir (Originator of Sacred Spot Massage)

Alison Armstrong (Author & originator of Celebrating Men Understanding Women)

Ian Ferguson (Master Trainer of Erotic Blueprint)

Emiliya Zhivotovskaya (founder of the flourishing Institute of NY)

Sheri Winston (Author of Anatomy of Arousal)

Mare Simone, (Sex Coach & Initiatress of the Sacred Tantric Arts)

Plus 15 others!

For a full list of all the Powerful S£xperts click here.

Join us in this juicy conversation

ENROLL HERE, Free to Join!

So you can enjoy it from the privacy of your own home.

See you there!! Mare

S£X Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd

Got lot’s of TLC to share, let’s re-connect and reimagine…

I retreated from the outer world so I could discover ways to recreate myself to adjust to the “new normal.” I found a sanctuary of inner peace and balance that energizes me [and my clients]. It uplifts me and keeps me sane even in the midst of chaos.

I took a course on cervical orgasms as gateways to access my high self! It was so fun and I learned things about my body that I didn’t know.

After all these years I’m still discovering hidden treasures of pleasure. Amazing right!?

Beyond anything I ever felt from Sacred spot [aka: G-spot] and clitoral O’s combined.

I discovered profoundly DEEP states within me along with new depths of expanding O’s. I’m delighted to say that I never stop learning. 

So, I’m super excited to announce that I’ll be sharing much more on that in this great gathering of Sexperts. I invite you to join us and learn from the best!

S£X Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd, AND it’s FREE!!

I’m sharing my most recent and passionate discoveries around cervical orgasms, as part of it, Stay tuned to find out more. (Or just reply and I’ll tell you more, privately.)

So, if you are feeling stuck or at a loss for inspiration in your intimate life…

Have you been having routine s£x, unsatisfying s£x, or no s£x at all for far too long?

I’ve got a solution for you! It’s all about reimagining what’s possible when it comes to your s£xuality.

I was recently invited to speak on an interview series, on Cervical Orgasms as a Portal to Profound Pleasure! This interview series is one that I know is going to make a huge impact on the way we as human beings relate to our s£xuality.

And because this is my next level, I thought it was so perfect to share this publicly for the first time on the S£x Reimagined Summit.

Let me introduce you to the Hosts of the event: Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Collectively they bring over 40 years of experience, as they blend the ancient arts of Tantra Yoga and Taoist S£xology.

Dr. Willow and Leah are birthing the S£x Reimagined Summit (followed by ongoing Podcasts).

Our aim is to inspire, reignite and reimagine what it means for you to have a thriving love life, because they know it’s the fastest, most pleasurable path to healing your body and soul.

They’ve brought together over 20+ leading S£xsperts, so that you can hear a myriad of perspectives, ideas and possibilities when it comes to expanding your s£xual repetior!

I’m so excited to speak at THIS summit!

Myself along with the 20+ other speakers will be opening up a conversation about how we can reimagine our relationship to s£x, how we talk about it, how we think about it and how we approach it. Share this event with your friends!

The fun begins JULY 11th- 22nd, AND if you enroll now, it’s FREE!

You will get access to all the leading Sexperts in the field of health, sexuality and spirituality.

Guest S£xperts Include:

Charles Muir (Originator of Sacred Spot Massage)

Alison Armstrong (Author & originator of Celebrating Men Understanding Women)

Ian Ferguson (Master Trainer of Erotic Blueprint)

Emiliya Zhivotovskaya (founder of the flourishing Institute of NY)

Sheri Winston (Author of Anatomy of Arousal)

Mare Simone, (Sex Coach & Initiatress of the Sacred Tantric Arts)

Plus 15 others!

For a full list of all the Powerful S£xperts click here.

Join us in this juicy conversation

ENROLL HERE, Free to Join!

So you can enjoy it from the privacy of your own home.

See you there!! Mare

Testimonial – Mark Robinson

Thank you for your magic, your love, your blessings, your healing and your unconditional acceptance. You are truly special, and I felt very special with you. Like I have never felt with another woman.

MR – Boston Developer

Testimonial From Larry F.

I want to thank you, Mare, for opening my eyes!! I use to walk down the street thinking my eyes were wide open, but until I met Mare my eyes were actually closed . When I talked to you on the phone you were so gentle and inspiring, it was like you were already in my soul. I can barely find words to express how the time we spent together broadened my sense of being. You brought me to a state of mind I did not know existed. After leaving our first meeting I realized that life is not just what you put into it but more what you actually take from it,and nothing is beyond expectation. I thank you greatly Mare!!

To anyone reading this, if you have not met with Mare before, it is a must to do so . She will change your life forever as she has changed mine. I will never forget nor lose appreciation for the fabulous Mare Simone!!!

From Larry F

A Tantric Sex Surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for more powerful orgasms

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In the vast and Cosmo-flavored world of sex tips, there’s an overabundance of technical advice in circulation.

Touch her g-spot like so. Try the corkscrew blowjob. Put a pillow under your ass.

That kind of stuff.

Yet, there’s next to nothing out there that offers advice on how to build the intimacy that makes those techniques actually work. After all, you can only trace the alphabet on someone’s prostate so well without the viable emotional connection that makes it really fucking good … regardless of how fleeting that connection may be.

That’s a problem that Mare Simone solves every day in her practice. Simone is a certified tantric educator, sex surrogate and author who helps men and women learn to clear emotional and physical sexual blocks and view sex as an empowering, helpful tool. Part of that work includes instructing couples and individuals on how to build and maintain intimacy during sex, partially because the ability to create intimacy leads to greater confidence, and partially because more powerful orgasms happen from what she describes as a more “open, vulnerable state.”

Never ones to shy away from anything that makes us come more professionally, we asked her for some tips on how to create the intimate connection that primes us for a better bang.

Become a pro at eye contact

“I love to start couples facing each other, sitting up,” Simone says. “I have them talk about what they love about each other,  what they’d love more of, and what they’d love to experience with each other (like a fantasy or a desire) … all while looking into each other’s eyes and breathing those words in. When you maintain eye contact while talking about sexual desires, it really builds intimacy before the touch, which makes the actual touch more powerful when it does happen. Sometimes when you verbalize what you love or need, it can feel vulnerable or naked. But, it allows you to become open and let love, pleasure and acknowledgement in. That makes for really great sex.”

She also recommends incorporating eye contact into actual sex as well.

“Anytime you touch, touch with eye contact. Make love with your eyes open. It’s so rich … it feels like you’re diving deep into this pool and not shutting your eyes because you’re afraid of what’s at the bottom,” she adds.

But, it’s not like you have to keep your peepers wrenched open A Clockwork Orange-style; she fully acknowledges that there are times when it feels right to close them and sink into pleasure. In general though, she explains that the more eyes-open you are, the more connected you can be and the more powerful orgasms you can have.

“There’s a penetration of sorts that happens with eye contact,” she says. “And it can be really intense when you’re also having sex — it’s like you’re being penetrated from both sides.”

Experiment with face and hand caressing

“This, to me is one of the most beautiful things,” Simone says. “I love hand holding, hand touching, those sort of things. And sometimes when someone touches my face, it just feels so warm and giggly and sweet, like it activates some part of my inner child. That in itself is opening.”

One of the best positions she recommends for hand stuff is to have one partner place their hand downwards, and the other placing theirs upwards on top so they can feel the polar opposite of the other person. Then, from there, Simone suggests you play around with movement in your hands and fingers by stroking each other’s palms, wrists and fingertips. Even though doing this is nonverbal, Simone says it can help couples explore a lot of communication and sensation with each other; something that also works to build sexual tension and make each person feel more connected.

Long, caressing strokes to build tension

Simone is a big advocate of the long, slow, delicate stroke.

“Have one person put their hands up and receive their partner’s touch, while the other caresses their body. Start slowly at their face and, then make your way down the sides of their arms to their chest, finally finishing at their fingertips. Then, with permission, caress their breasts (if they have them), coming down across their stomach to their inner thighs.

Making these long, caressing strokes connects the body to the mind, which makes it much more emotional-feeling,” she says. “That’s where you become really open and the sex becomes really good. When you do this, you become vulnerable, so there’s no real game playing or social scripting of traditionally “sexy” roles. It’s just what you mean and what you feel.”

Do a little dance

On the more erotic end of the spectrum, Simone recommends you build tension and intimacy by dancing for your partner. It can be a sitting dance, or one standing up; a stripping thing or a more conservative one — whatever feels comfortable and gives your partner a display of your body. Of course, maintaining eye contact during the deed can make it that much more powerful.

If you crack up, you crack up. Try not to — we double dog dare you. Even if it’s the more masculine doing the dancing, Simone says the humor of it can cut through to the more relaxed, vulnerable place that makes the body more open for intimacy.

Moan together, in sync

“This can be immense if you can actually harmonize your orgasms,” Simone says. “But even if you can’t, sharing the same breath and sound intensifies things a lot. In tantra, energy moves on sound, so you double the energy when you sound together.”

That’s not to say that spontaneously moaning when your partner does will make you come or make the sex revolutionary … it’s more about doing it when it feels natural to. But, like all forms of breathing exercises, it does really place you in the moment. It’s hard to think about their sweaty, lumbering man boobs or the curious way your dad tries to tell you he loves you when you’re synchronizing your breath with someone while they squirt on your showiest throw pillows.

Sex | Rooster Magazine On-Line December 21, 2016 By Isabelle Kohn

 

Enter the Orgasmic Magic Zone ~ OMZone

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Illustration by: Shawna X

I had so much fun during this interview, I regret not recording it. Happy with the article Hannah wrote. Enter the #OMZone!

My first pop-culture encounter with tantric sex was—like so many other “edgy” sexual practices, from threesomes to fetishes—during a “SATC” episode. The women attend a tantric sex workshop in which a white-haired woman massages her elderly, blissed-out husband, who, after some buildup, ejaculates into the air and … onto Miranda. Educational? Sure. An accurate depiction of tantra? Not so much, according to my sources.

Tantra as a broader category refers to the ancient practices and customs of Hinduism. Tantric sex grew out of this larger religious umbrella as a form of ritualized sacred sex—one that may have inherited some of its tenets or inspiration from tantra, but which most proponents of Hinduism and Buddhism deny sharing much heritage with the religion. So everything you’ll learn here is in the context of tantric sex as it exists today, casually and unofficially—it has no affiliation with a religion, culture, or organization. It’s a practice that is shared and passed down, and followed with devotion by the people whose lives—and sex lives—it has changed for the better.
I spoke to California-based Advanced Certified Tantra Educator Mare Simone, ACTE a teacher at the Source School of Tantra, who gave me her own definition of tantric sex. “The first words that come to mind are a real, true coming together,” she says. “It’s when women learn to fully feel their body’s sexual needs and desires, allowing them to become much more orgasmic than they usually are. And men slow down and learn how to harness their sexual power so they can ride the orgasmic wave together, rather than coming quickly, which they’re hard-wired to do.” London-based tantric sex instructor Rebecca Lowrie is quick to point out that a tantric experience isn’t just sexual, either. “It’s really a spiritual path that embraces sexuality,” she says. “It’s a path of letting go of fear, shame, and conditioning so that you can be your full self. It provides a framework and set of resources for being utterly present and therefore intimate with life.”

When Mare described her idea of a successful tantric sexual experience, I was in awe. “I think a woman should have at least two, or even three orgasms before sexual penetration even begins.” Say what?! “When the roots of the clitoris are fully engorged after orgasm, penetration is so much more desirable for a woman and much more pleasurable for men. There’s more contact, the vagina is juicy, wet, and might even involve the female ejaculation that can send a man into seventh heaven.” OK, listening…

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How all of this actually goes down is both mysterious and intriguing as hell. “I call it the orgasmic magic zone—the OM zone,” says Simone. “It can happen with partners, but also on your own. It’s an erotic sexual meditation, a zone you can feel even before touch begins when you’re in tune with your orgasm energy, through breathing and muscles that pump through your whole pelvic region and make it engorge.” It works for both men and women, she says. When you come this way, especially with a partner through penetration, the orgasm has a deeper, whole-body quality, and lasts much longer, she explains.

“It’s so much more emotionally, spiritually, and physically satisfying,” she says. “You can even go into a deep, meditative healing state. Sometimes old emotional traumas or wounds come up and are cleared through that orgasmic energy. That’s when tantric sex becomes what I would call magical and distinct from just pump and grind, get it off and go to sleep.” Oh, and men don’t necessarily have to ejaculate—but that doesn’t mean they don’t come.
“Really, men should have fewer climaxes and more orgasms,” says Simone, “because if he ejaculates on the first orgasm, there’s nothing left.” But if a man internally ejaculates—yep, that’s a thing, it’s called injaculating—without releasing semen, “he’s reinvesting in his own erotic bank account. That serves him sexually, making his orgasms much more powerful, and even gives him more energy, rather than making him feel depleted and want to roll over.” So really, if that old couple had been properly tantra-ing in “SATC,” the man wouldn’t have shot his load all over Miranda.

After picking Simone’s brain as much as I could, I asked her for a couple of tantric rituals that can be tried at home—alone, or with a partner—for the curious newbies among us.

Beginner’s Tantra for One: Self-Love Initiation
On a day when you want to honor yourself, start a Jacuzzi or bath to wash away the day. Make your bed as you would for a lover—laid out beautifully with candles, towels, or toys. This sets the stage for a special ritual. After the cleansing bubble bath, begin to caress your inner thighs and up and around your genitals, without trying to come. “Just feel what your sexual body center needs,” says Simone. “Invoke self-loving communication.”

Make a yoni mudra (“sacred position of power”) with your hands, letting your index fingers touch right at the tip of your clitoris, and the tips of your thumbs touching over your pubic bone. It should look like a heart shape. “Meditate in that place,” she says. “This position creates a tremendous amount of power, so feel the circuitry connect over your vagina with your hands in the mudra, pumping thoughts of love and appreciation into that area while breathing deeply.”

The next stage might be a massage, but not with the goal of orgasm. “This is like the antithesis of masturbation,” says Simone. “Give yourself loving pleasure with your hands, rather than a vibrator. The beautify is that later, when a woman wants to guide a partner to find those sacred places in her, she’ll know how to teach him or her what her body needs because she listened to it.”

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Beginner’s Tantra for Two: Maximum Pleasure
Look into each other’s eyes. Breathe deeply. Take turns caressing each other’s hands one at a time, one finger at a time. Notice and talk about all the feelings in each hand. Then move on to the face. Touch, kiss, and learn about all of the feelings in different areas—the cheek, the forehead, the chin.

“There are so many parts of us represented in our hands and face—every organ and chakra,” says Simone. “For those who like feet, every toe can be an erogenous zone. It’s not about manually stimulating each other’s genitals; it’s about the tender places that need to be touched. These places are hidden some of the time, so they hold secrets and feelings, and can be so erotic when they’re touched the right way, with communication and a lot of attention.”

Pay attention to unlikely locations: The arches of feet, the soft spots between each finger and toe, the cracks of the elbows, the crease behind the knees. Use fingertips or whole hands or soft scratching of nails—use every nuance of touch to create maximum pleasure. Guide your partner to find the maximum amount of pleasure in every place that he or she goes, explaining what feels good and requesting the things you want them to try.
“The exercise is to say what feels good and ask for more of that until you get it right—even if it’s just saying, ‘It feels really good that you want to discover what feels good to me,’” says Simone. The goal of this ritual is to create a safe environment where you and your partner feel comfortable experiencing things you’ve never felt before and establishing vulnerability and intimacy. “When this happens, the depth of connection that can happen is really profound.”

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Marie Claire: Lessons From my Sex Therapist

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Sex surrogates: Would you sleep with a stranger to save your sex life?

Powerful piece on Sex Surrogate Partner Therapy made the cover Marie Claire UK! May 2016! It
addressed this tender topic with such empathy I was in tears while I was interviewed… Moved me again when I read the final piece.
Sex surrogates: Would you sleep with a stranger to save your sex life?
Though surrogates don’t exactly “sleep” with their clients, we more likely awaken them to a fuller experience of life. Nor are we “strangers” as the article implies, at the time of sharing sexual intimacy because we spend significant amounts of time developing a deep intimate rapport before physically touching.
In many ways were probably more intimate than many couples who don’t spend time getting to know one their significant other’s thoughts, feelings, desires and dislikes.

All things considered, I’m pleased with this article. I trust that it gets into the hands of people who are ready for it.
Marie ClaireUK

For most people it IS quite a vulnerable confession to openly admit that they receive any kind of sex coaching or guidance to improve their love life. Not to their friends let alone to the public who will read it online. Worse yet to do this live on TV!

I honor them for being willing to be transparent about their issues, so that they may be examples to help others who are afflicted with similar challenges.

Though he was reluctant at first, Nate eventually let go and trusted the process. Then he had some major breakthroughs that were edgy and raw, captured on camera. Documented and aired on Discovery TV. Thank you for being exactually as you are!

Click here to see a video clip of sessions they did with me that aired on TV
It’s time people come out their closets; so they can play and love more passionately! I am thrilled when an article like this hits the stands or TV because it helps transform crippling feelings of sexual shame, fear and ignorance into playful sexual ecstasy wrapped with love and intimacy!

If you are wondering who Surrogate Partner Therapy or SPT is helpful for? Or if it can help you or someone you love…

Surrogate Partner Therapy can be very effective in helping people with trauma recovery rapidly. Once the issue is cleared and no longer holding you back from saying yes, to what you want, there is so much energy and pleasure to be discovered. Wayyy beyond the shamed status quo into high stratospheres of sacred pleasure, passion and power!

So for those who want to explore more and deeper authentic intimacy, this is for you too!

You don’t have to be traumatized to seek assistance or improve your love life. Overcoming trauma and numbness are areas I specialize in, because I learned to transform my own numbness and fear through curiosity; discovering body sensations and the depths of my feminine sensuality which awakened deliciousness like melting chocolate.

Click here to view the article that I got from the journalist at the time of this writing, it hasn’t come out stands yet! And they wait till it is off the stand before making available online, as they want want you to buy it direct from Marie Claire UK!

Here’s a candid interview video I just posted on YouTube of The Darlings in an interview never before published They are quoted several times in the Marie Claire article as they were in a TV documentary with me as my clients.
In the afterglow Interview with Nate and Monique Darling.

If you value this post or like the video, please comment and pass it on…Thanks!

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