In the first year of my tantra training

I shared an intensive week with 30 others at a tantra boot camp in the magnetic red rocks of Sedona, Arizona.     We transformed  a former Chinese restaurant with crimson dragons that greet you, waterfalls and gardens to delight your senses… , into a luscious Tantra temple.    Together we did some life transforming work that week.

We were guided in many ‘clearing and reclaiming power’ exercises over the course of 7 days and nights.  Men were encouraged to exercise and nourish their libido by getting aroused and sustaining it for longer and longer periods of time; without ejaculating for the entire week.

Playing at the edge without going over, allowed men to expand their capacity and range for pleasure.  The sexual tension created so much testosterone I was dripping with excitement.

The Big O was an intense prolonged peak which filled me was so much energy it electrified me.

It not only gave us amazing, expanded orgasms together but it instilled an exuberance the continued on days later.  This kind of orgasm leaves a lasting impact of being recharged and reborn!  (more…)

I’m a 44 year old guy who’s suffered from PE for as long as I can remember and am sick and tired of losing a relationship due to it or even self sabotaging them as its really affected my confidence to the point where  I cant get an erection anymore unless…

MARE: … I understand completely, and in fact it’s not at all uncommon. When you understand the psychology behind these two conditions and how they seem to feed upon one another, that cycle can be broken for you, once and for all.  As we are learning from the power of attraction, thoughts become things! So if you think about what you don’t want with fear you are still giving it energy; thereby giving it life.  The more you worry about it, the more likely it will affect you. So instead, you must focus on  positive and uplifting thoughts will guide you in the direction you want and not where you don’t want to go. This is is the primary pillar of a four-part foundation system that I can teach you, in depth one-on-one, either in person or over the phone.

Essentially you need to reprogram your body and your brain to respond to pleasure differently. This will take some practice will make perfect eventually, but since this has been a condition of yours for many years, it will take some time and effort to break old patterns. But that’s necessary in order to initiate major shifts  in your relationship to YOUR PLEASURE which I can also help you with.

The secret lies in focusing on what you truly want — instead of what you DON’T want! read more…

Hi Mare

I came across your details over the net and think that you may be able to help as everything else I’ve tried and am trying has failed.

I’m a 35 year old guy who’s suffered from PE since a teenager and am sick and tired of losing a relationship due to it or even self sabotaging them as its really affected my confidence to the point where i cant get an errection anymore unless i take a blue pill.

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