Helpers and Apprentices Wanted

Hiring – Virtual & Local

I need a team of folks with a passion for empowering pleasure world-wide! So I am posting this to my tribe… Pass it on!

Web-Master to update my site with SEO tags, compliances, commerce etc…
Graphic Artist, Brand Designer + logo HELP

Virtual Assistant: Newsletter, Mailing Lists, Private Email asst. and Social Media Marketing- Name your specialties this could likely be more than one position.

Personal Assistant: Local Help with Workshops and more!

Webinar Tech Support 

Video Editor  

Graphic Art  

Book Editor 

Local: Los Angeles, CA

Help with meetups and workshops

Video/Photographer 

Body Work & Tantra Massage

Dance and Partner Yoga Players to play with

Passionate People to interview for my upcoming Podcast on Empowering Pleasure

Pay negotiable. Interns and exchanging services for sessions and classes is most welcome.

Offering Private & Group Coaching Tantra Sessions on the phone or Skype. Workshops and Sessions by arangement.

The way that I work with my clients, students and apprentices is usually a combination of sessions on Skype or phone and in person.

Apply at: Mare@MareSimone.com

Please send a letter of introduction and tell  me why you would like to work with me! Please submit your resume and samples of your work, when applicable. Tell me why you’re inspired. What do you desire in exchange?! Salary and/or services negotiable.

All applicants will be reviewed and responded to.

 

 

 

 

 

Goddess Swap – Tantra Talk, Dance and Ecstatic Breathwork… Women Only!

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Details & Register here

2 – 3pm: Gather. Greet and Eat!
3 – 5pm: Tantra Time: Talk and experiential practices to awaken and activate our Bliss Bodies.

Come early to help setup and get first pick in the giveaway. I’ve got tons of clothes, music CDs and books to give! Go home with treasures and new friends.

Goddess Girl-Talk on deep topics of love, sexual healing, and Tantra sex tips. Fire breath orgasm, and sacred spot massage.

I’m feeling called to form a core group of women to meet regularly. Larger circles too.

This event is for Women only, because I want to get to know you and empand my juicy rich Women’s Tantra tribe with local LA ladies.

I envision us doing deep Tantric, empowering work with one another. If you feel called, please come!

BRING: Clothes, accessories, decor and fun stuff you’re ready to clean out of your scene. * NEED: PORTABLE CLOTHES RACK or MIRRORS Please! Can never have too many!

* Excess stuff will be donated to charities that support abused Women.

$20 – Donation appreciated -or-
FREE – When you Bring HEALTHY finger foods & HELP where needed, instead. Volunteer!

HELP WANTED: TECH, IT Help in organizing and promoting this and a few other Meetup groups.

ASSISTANTS: Local or Virtual! Savvy Social Media Marketing. Email. Newsletter etc.
Location: South LA near downtown. Address given upon registration.

>> If you can host a future event, let me know.  Free for Host and 1 or 2 friends!  Seeking compatible, environments in LA.

Details & Register here

 

Male Multiples: Fact or Fiction?

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Pop culture is ripe with references to women being multi-orgasmic. Women are generally more sensual, sensitive, and nurturing than men. It is discouraging for a man to be told that you are not capable of being able to connect at the same heights as your female partner.

Most men have experienced, at one point or another, dissatisfactory sex. It is easy to put the pressure on yourself, “I have to perform! I have to make her orgasm! I have to be the best lover she has ever had! A modern-day Casanova.” Despite this, many men suffer from premature ejaculation, difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, delayed ejaculation, or simply not quite knowing what to do once “it’s in.” You learn that you are supposed to be dominant. “Be a man,” they say. But what does it mean to be a man?

Is it possible that men are capable of attaining the same mental, emotional, and spiritual heights as women through sexual expression? We look to explore this concept through the concept of multiple orgasms.

It is difficult to enjoy the experience of having sex with a loved one when you are worried about when you will ejaculate. The harder you try to suppress the urge, the quicker you ejaculate. Plus, you are not able to be fully present because of the constant worry over cumming too soon. When it happens, you become apologetic, “I’m so sorry,” or make up excuses, “This usually never happens! It’s been awhile. I’m actually good… I just haven’t done it in a while.”

The truth is, this is all a mask for a lack of sexual mastery. It is difficult for men to speak about these struggles with one another, so they bury it deep into their subconscious, only to have it arise when entering a new relationship with a woman and having to face that dragon all over again. Most men are ill-equipped to have these types of conversations, and it’s not something spoken about in traditional American schools.

Wouldn’t it be great if you didn’t have to worry about having an orgasm, because another one was around the bend?

Well you don’t have to worry or wait in anguish for the next round. In Tantra you can come without going away. This is so liberating as it takes you out of the worry zone and deeply into the moment, where ease and flow create!

It’s amazing when orgasm does not mean that you have to loose your power and wait in sheer embarrassment praying for your penis to become erect again…

Most guys have sex for a few minutes and then come, falling asleep in the arms of his unsatisfied lover. There is much truth to this stereotype. Men typically become tired after ejaculating, and the process of refraction is scientifically normal in men. It takes time for the blood to flow back into the penis. Mentally, men are “checked out” once they ejaculate, and it takes time for them to become mentally aroused again. They are satiated, and have to work up an appetite to go for multiple rounds.

The truth about multiple orgasms for men is that they are possible, but it takes training and commitment. It takes self-control. It is not about withholding the orgasms, as some traditionalists may advise.

Rather, it is about diverting the ejaculation, inward and outward, so that it can build into an ongoing stream of pleasurable energy that may look and feel like an orgasm, but does not involve an ejaculatory release. Attaining this level of sexual mastery requires deep relaxation and focus. Through learning this process, a man can not only become multi-orgasmic, but experience an entirely new sensation: a whole body orgasm!

Ordinary “friction sex” consists of experiencing the orgasm and ejaculation simultaneously. However, these sensations are actually separate functions which stem from opposite sides of the nervous system. It is possible, with training, to experience these two sensations independent of one another.

It is possible for a man to ejaculate without feeling much physical pleasure at all. Most men have experienced this at least once in their lives. Therefore, it must be possible that a man can increase the pleasure volume while decreasing the sense of urgency to release.

To be clear, multiple orgasms and full body orgasms are not the same thing. Men who experience multiple orgasms frequently enjoy pleasurable sensations that are similar to those women feel during a session of multiple orgasms. They report a sense of lightness and tingling that radiates warmth throughout their bodies, carrying with it a nourishing energy that flows through their entire being. This expanded state of arousal can last and last, indefinitely!

The practice of Tantra teaches us that prolonged, multiple orgasms can occur without the feelings of depletion, tiredness, and lethargy that often follow ejaculation.

In ordinary Western sex, a man is spent after he ejaculates a single time, especially after the age of 35 when his hormone levels begin to decline. During an ejaculation, a man loses significant amounts of proteins, vitamins, minerals, and vital life forces. Many major stories point to this mysterious “life force,” from religions to Greek myths. Any man who has gone a week without masturbating can attest to increased energy—that is the “life force” in reference here. This extra energy, joie de vivre.

After an ejaculation, the brain releases sleep hormones, which lead to what I like to call “snorgasms” often complained about by women in their therapists’ offices.

The word “orgasm” is derived from ancient Greek, and means, “to become engorged; a fullness and ripeness that can occur in any organ of the body.” This is different than the modern definition of “orgasm.” However, the ancient Greek definition is quite similar to the Tantric view. In Tantra, the orgasm is not the goal that results at the culmination of a sexual experience. Rather, it a state of aroused awareness that can occur literally anywhere and everywhere throughout the body.

The practice of Tantra teaches us how to reach this physical, mental, and spiritual state by being receptive to the energy flowing through us. By focusing on this energy, we can become deeply aroused while remaining mentally present and centered from within.

This state of mind is the cornerstone for experiencing amazingly satisfying orgasmic experiences. There is simply no “goal” or “performance” to work towards. Rather, this experience is about fully enjoying what is happening in the present moment. This allows men to approach sex from a stance that is anxiety-free, and enjoy any type of sex they wish to have with the sexual partner. They can choose to have quick, passionate sex, but now it will be just that: a choice. They do not have to be slaves to their basic sexual instinct. They can also choose to have slow, intimate sex where they connect with their partner in a way not possible when driven by instinct alone.

The more men and women linger in this state together, the more energy and vitality we are able to absorb, further revitalizing us. This type of orgasm is deep, limitless, and a constant source of powerful energy that can be transmuted into every aspect of life, from creative pursuits to tending to loved ones.

While men cannot control the actual climax once it is occurring, they can learn to ride its waves and experience the immense pleasure and joy it brings. It is similar to a swimmer learning to surf: while he cannot control the ocean, the surfer learns to connect to the power of the ocean. Instead of being overcome by incoming waves, the surfer can eventually become skillful end mindful enough to play with the waves, enjoying the ride.

Maintaining a heightened level of pleasure throughout a series of non-ejaculatory, yet orgasmic, sexual experiences provides numerous benefits to the mind and body. This, in the Tantric view, frequent ejaculation can be depleting because the process of ejaculation causes the man to lose vital energies and nutrients.

On the other hand, after a session of sustaining a high level of pleasure, but not ejaculating, a man can actually feel rejuvenated and energized in the afterglow.

Everyone is entitled to experiencing the pleasure their own bodies allow. I do not agree with austere Taoists who profess that men should never ejaculate unless the intention is procreation. Most men find these methods much too technical, making it difficult to follow through with the practice with any degree of success, or pleasure, for that matter. Not to mention the difficult position it places women in to be in a relationship with a man who is practicing these techniques. It is not sexy, to say the least.

This type of belief is also popular in conservative religions, often viewing pleasure as hedonistic and, ultimately, sinful. This is a negative view of sexual experience that has proven unhealthy for humanity again and again.

I do believe that when the ejaculation occurs as a final state of highly orgasmic interaction, it should be done consciously, with wisdom and intention. When a man “plants his seed” along with an intentional thought or vision, it becomes infused with the creative life force, whether the goal is to create a baby, or to create an empowered reality.

The path to becoming a multi-orgasmic male requires discarding many former modes of thinking, such as envisioning the man as the dominant “performer” in the relationship, who has to give his partner orgasms and fuck her all night long like a character out of a pulp novel. The true experience of multi-orgasmic sex is actually more pleasurable, and satisfying, than any of these pulp authors can even imagine.

It means actually experiencing pleasure in new ways. It requires commitment, mental practice, and an openness to learning new facets of your body. Your body has more features than you currently know. Following the Tantric methods outlined in my blog posts, and taught at my seminars, provides a plan to learning how to develop into a man who is truly confident in their sexuality, and can give and receive pleasure beyond the norm. The path to male multiple orgasms is not easy, but it surely is worth the effort.

A Tantric Sex Surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for more powerful orgasms

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In the vast and Cosmo-flavored world of sex tips, there’s an overabundance of technical advice in circulation.

Touch her g-spot like so. Try the corkscrew blowjob. Put a pillow under your ass.

That kind of stuff.

Yet, there’s next to nothing out there that offers advice on how to build the intimacy that makes those techniques actually work. After all, you can only trace the alphabet on someone’s prostate so well without the viable emotional connection that makes it really fucking good … regardless of how fleeting that connection may be.

That’s a problem that Mare Simone solves every day in her practice. Simone is a certified tantric educator, sex surrogate and author who helps men and women learn to clear emotional and physical sexual blocks and view sex as an empowering, helpful tool. Part of that work includes instructing couples and individuals on how to build and maintain intimacy during sex, partially because the ability to create intimacy leads to greater confidence, and partially because more powerful orgasms happen from what she describes as a more “open, vulnerable state.”

Never ones to shy away from anything that makes us come more professionally, we asked her for some tips on how to create the intimate connection that primes us for a better bang.

Become a pro at eye contact

“I love to start couples facing each other, sitting up,” Simone says. “I have them talk about what they love about each other,  what they’d love more of, and what they’d love to experience with each other (like a fantasy or a desire) … all while looking into each other’s eyes and breathing those words in. When you maintain eye contact while talking about sexual desires, it really builds intimacy before the touch, which makes the actual touch more powerful when it does happen. Sometimes when you verbalize what you love or need, it can feel vulnerable or naked. But, it allows you to become open and let love, pleasure and acknowledgement in. That makes for really great sex.”

She also recommends incorporating eye contact into actual sex as well.

“Anytime you touch, touch with eye contact. Make love with your eyes open. It’s so rich … it feels like you’re diving deep into this pool and not shutting your eyes because you’re afraid of what’s at the bottom,” she adds.

But, it’s not like you have to keep your peepers wrenched open A Clockwork Orange-style; she fully acknowledges that there are times when it feels right to close them and sink into pleasure. In general though, she explains that the more eyes-open you are, the more connected you can be and the more powerful orgasms you can have.

“There’s a penetration of sorts that happens with eye contact,” she says. “And it can be really intense when you’re also having sex — it’s like you’re being penetrated from both sides.”

Experiment with face and hand caressing

“This, to me is one of the most beautiful things,” Simone says. “I love hand holding, hand touching, those sort of things. And sometimes when someone touches my face, it just feels so warm and giggly and sweet, like it activates some part of my inner child. That in itself is opening.”

One of the best positions she recommends for hand stuff is to have one partner place their hand downwards, and the other placing theirs upwards on top so they can feel the polar opposite of the other person. Then, from there, Simone suggests you play around with movement in your hands and fingers by stroking each other’s palms, wrists and fingertips. Even though doing this is nonverbal, Simone says it can help couples explore a lot of communication and sensation with each other; something that also works to build sexual tension and make each person feel more connected.

Long, caressing strokes to build tension

Simone is a big advocate of the long, slow, delicate stroke.

“Have one person put their hands up and receive their partner’s touch, while the other caresses their body. Start slowly at their face and, then make your way down the sides of their arms to their chest, finally finishing at their fingertips. Then, with permission, caress their breasts (if they have them), coming down across their stomach to their inner thighs.

Making these long, caressing strokes connects the body to the mind, which makes it much more emotional-feeling,” she says. “That’s where you become really open and the sex becomes really good. When you do this, you become vulnerable, so there’s no real game playing or social scripting of traditionally “sexy” roles. It’s just what you mean and what you feel.”

Do a little dance

On the more erotic end of the spectrum, Simone recommends you build tension and intimacy by dancing for your partner. It can be a sitting dance, or one standing up; a stripping thing or a more conservative one — whatever feels comfortable and gives your partner a display of your body. Of course, maintaining eye contact during the deed can make it that much more powerful.

If you crack up, you crack up. Try not to — we double dog dare you. Even if it’s the more masculine doing the dancing, Simone says the humor of it can cut through to the more relaxed, vulnerable place that makes the body more open for intimacy.

Moan together, in sync

“This can be immense if you can actually harmonize your orgasms,” Simone says. “But even if you can’t, sharing the same breath and sound intensifies things a lot. In tantra, energy moves on sound, so you double the energy when you sound together.”

That’s not to say that spontaneously moaning when your partner does will make you come or make the sex revolutionary … it’s more about doing it when it feels natural to. But, like all forms of breathing exercises, it does really place you in the moment. It’s hard to think about their sweaty, lumbering man boobs or the curious way your dad tries to tell you he loves you when you’re synchronizing your breath with someone while they squirt on your showiest throw pillows.

Sex | Rooster Magazine On-Line December 21, 2016 By Isabelle Kohn

 

Here’s your Tantric Secrets to Last Longer, in Luscious Love!

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Master Your Magic Your Wand of Light! Part 1

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“Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit and is best translated as the “Wand of Light and Power”. This wand is magical because it is a conduit that receives, stores and generates the power that creates life! Therefore it is a manifestor with the power to create, not only new life, but a brainchild as well.

It is adjoined with a massive network of circuits called ‘Nadis’ which connect every organ throughout your body! Nadis correspond to the nerves and subtle energy channels which flow along your spine and out the top of your head through a circuit of centers; known as Chakras.

Chakras are aligned along your spine and each corresponds with all your major organs and endocrine system. There are seven major chakras from your base, to your “magic wand”, up to your solar plexus, then your heart, your throat, your third eye, and ultimately the crown chakra at the top of your head.

Your Lingam becomes an empowered Wand of Light when is engorged with creative life forces. Aroused it can illuminate others with pleasure. Glowing with this radiance for extended periods of time, it becomes super-charged and able to generate profound Pleasure along with magnetic energies that enhance whatever you focus on.

Meditating on pleasure is a quick way to ease stress, helping you relax more deeply, even while feeling highly aroused! Here lies a key to achieving whole body orgasms which stream inward rather than out. In this way your energy flows like a fountain of rejuvenating life-forces throughout your entire body.

See for yourself by cultivating arousal without releasing the seed. Instead intentionally channel it toward a desired outcome, as this helps develop your powers to create. You can learn to draw sexual energy in and reinvest it in yourself, to rejuvenate and attract whatever you desire.

As you do this practice notice the creative power and energy you feel during and in the afterglow. I call this process “In-Coming” and it can be mastered by any man who wants to realize his full potential and willing to replace the urge for immediate gratification with an openness to deliver a deep degree of pleasure and satisfaction to his partner. This can best be achieved when the goal to climax is replaced by the desire to discover a far more fulfilling emotionally experience for both partners! Thus increasing a woman’s ability to experience orgasms through intercourse more reliably and with more connection.

The energy of arousal is like a perpetual river that can potentially with practice, flow from your tip of your Lingam, to the top of your head. Infusing your intentions in this power! As long as you can remain in a state of relaxed arousal, this energy will feed and revitalize you.

So it is indeed good to think with your “small head” when it’s connected and channeling creative energy through all your Chakras. It fills your entire body up to your head with creative energy! Much wisdom can be accessed by connecting this circuit and unleashing the power it holds.

Tantra, aligns all your Chakras in healing waves of pleasure that fill you with exhilarating energy. This can leave you feeling better in the afterglow than when you started! Contrasting with men’s instinctual or primary orgasms where they typically release the energy before it matures. They generally are short-circuited and disperse your potential power prior to being fully realized.

Men who “cum” in this manner usually feel depleted afterwards. To what extent depends upon their age, their vitality and their intentions.

When your intention is to raise your sexual energy and channel it towards positive desires, it rewards you (and your partner, when practicing together) with pleasure-filled, pulsing vitality. This quality of energy invokes profound orgasms that often spark big aha’s moving people to tears and laughter by its awesomeness. This is truly making love magical!

Every cell of your being can be bathed in this bliss which will renew you, strengthen your immune system and accelerate the healing process! This will keep you young and vital. When you understand your creative essence from this standpoint you become a magician whose wand is your divine source of power.

Orgasms of this magnitude, when directed consciously are healing and joyful to themselves and their partners. When men learn to reabsorb their seed, orgasm becomes longer and more engaging with many peaks and valleys!

Rather than just holding back or simply delaying an ejaculation; In-Coming reinvests your creative life forces back inward where you are recharged by this activated essence!

Avoiding ejaculation without transmuting the energy can often lead to a heavy feeling referred to as “blue balls” which can can cause discomfort and frustration. Eventually leading to a less interested lingam, which can atrophy and even possibly contribute to disease and dysfunctions due to denial which leads to stagnation.

This is not that, but rather a productive way to give and receive the most joy and pleasure by prolonging sexual union…

To be continued:
Part two: The Power of Sexual Transmutation

Hawaiian Tantra Festival ~ Ecstatic Event! ~ Jan 2-6, 2016


I will be leading a luscious workshop on Pleasuring Men with my yummy partner Mick at
The Sex and Consciousness Festival!

In the company of other Tantra, Yoga and Dance Teachers and lots of conscious, loving people, you’ll discover your Passion in Paradise!

If you feel called to join us — Please do! And tell them I sent you!!
I will give you a warm, melting hug when I see you there!

I’ll ALSO give you a FREE 45 minute phone session to help you IGNITE YOUR PASSIONS! >>> If you send me a digital copy of your receipt when you signup.<<<

Workshops will take place throughout the festival at Kalani Honua Resort. You’ll have the possibility of attending up to 3 workshops each day, plus your choice of a morning yoga or meditation to start each day from a grounded place. Workshops will encompass many approaches to Tantra, Spiritual Sexuality, Conscious Sensuality, Touch, Personal Development and Embodied Movement presented by passionate teachers excited to pass on their knowledge and ideas to you.

Evenings will be filled with music, dance, rituals and entertainment, bringing our Ecstatic Community together in Ecstatic Communion!Tantra is the Art of weaving Love and Life, Sex and Spirit, Consciousness and Embodiment.

Accept this invitation to explore these connections with us. We’ve planned 5 unforgettable days and 4 steamy nights with a focused intention to step into our purpose, our power, and our pleasure. Experience world-renowned teachers in a magical setting with DJ’s, Yogis, and Musicians leading Rituals and Performances designed to elevate the spirit and celebrate the power of love.

With heart and mind expanding workshops, embodied movement and dance, grounding yoga and meditation, and exciting special events, this is a not-to-be-missed gathering that is sure to be fun, sexy, educational and transformative.

Teachers:
We’ve called together a diverse faculty of internationally renowned teachers and leaders in Tantra, Sacred Sexuality and related arts. We want you to ask yourself: What is useful to you in your life? Your spirituality? Your sexuality? How can sexuality serve to increase your awareness, your love, your compassion, and your life-force energy?

Check out what these passionate teachers have to share with you to help you answer these questions and bring you into a more intimate relationship with yourself and all of life!

Visit the Facebook Event Page to see who else will be there. It looks like over 100 beautiful people already signed up already. They are expecting 200! Including me Will you joins us?!

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Please remember to tell them Mare sent you. And then be sure to find me as I can give you your MELTING HUG!!

XOXO Mare

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