Yoni Wisdom and Deep Pleasures

To feel inside of a woman with your soul, feel first with your touch, breath, lips, tongue and tones. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can receive to her ecstasy fully! What wondrous mysteries women can awaken within!? When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious man into our deepest most vulnerable parts we can be in hours of bliss within Then sex becomes a luscious meditation.
When Pleasure is Pain
Some women feel pain deep inside with deep hard penetration all the way in, to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not relaxed.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If tears arise pour love into her eyes and kiss those tears or something equally romantic and loving. Whatever you do, don’t give her a tissue right away and tell her to stop crying.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our heart if we can be conscious with our eyes open and see feel here and absorb the love that were receiving.
 
Sometimes it brings up everything unlike itself in order to be healed. That’s part of the process, stay with her and understand that it’s not about you. Give her room to rage if she needs, for a minute or two.
 
But don’t linger long in the darkness. Recognize its value for bringing you here and now and bring her back with love, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. It still helps if you encourage her to make some noise and release stuck energy without judgment.
 
Pour love into the painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our sex-tunnel[s]. That includes the base chakra as well
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace those phantom fears with conscious present love. It’s a deep spot no doctor can touch. A beloved [Tantric healer] can touch this cervix Om-Zone in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a blessed wand of light. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a hand-carved phallus of rose quartz for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slow with stillness pauses often to soften tight tissue and release memories of fear and pain. Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
It may be time to say so long to old armored past phantom pain, which no longer serves you.
 
Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Self healing through self love is an important and powerful part of the process. You may also require a guide to support you through the darkest parts.
 
Or to give you a kick start, at some point along the way. Sometimes it’s hard to see our own shadow in the proper perspective
 
I used to have that issue big time, until I learned to relax completely. Which takes trust and the ability to relax and soften, breathe and relax even move through the pain and numbness by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really are after you start to release the past.
 
Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
 
The release of all that tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure as sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful gasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open to full penetration without an ounce of resistance.
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
 

Re-Flowering: Women Transforming Sex ~ Sacred Sisterhood

 

Monthly!  3rd Saturday of the month. 

Nurturing Tantra-Time for Women Only

Yoni Puja is a ritual to clear your past and re-awaken your sacred flower as your Source of pleasures, wisdom and Creative Energy.

“Deflowering” is a term used to describe “losing” one’s virginity. Two negative terms to describe the awakening of a woman’s sacred chambers of creation.

“ReFlowering”  honors and re-awaken Your Sacred Temple  to its original state of pure unity; free of trauma, shame or fear.

Tantric meditations with flowers, fruits and mudras [power positions of the hands] are used to activate this energy; fully clothed. Or not.

  • Come with an open heart to heal, explore and discuss sexuality
  • Share in Women’s mysteries, magic and delicious possibilities.
  • Leave with luscious discoveries with a new view of yourself.
    Tantric shifts that stay with you. Meet some new friends too!
  •  At a private residence LA, CA USA: address given upon registration
    $15 in advance $20 at door | 2 for 1 – Bring a Friend Free!

Confirm your space hereRe-Flowering

Refunds are offered as credit for any classes, other events or coaching sessions providing you inform Mare by text ASAP. Space is limited.  If you need to cancel please text ASAP.

Gourmet Tantra ~ Nourish Your Hunger

You’re Invited to a Tantra Dinner and Play-shop

Gourmet Foods and Whole Body Energy Ecstasy

March 29, 3-7 PM 

 

At a great, private estate in historic central Los Angeles. 

Enjoy libido lifting foods designed to nourish and arouse.

Deep discussions on the essence and awe of Tantra.

 

We’ll do partner stretches, yoga and mandala dance to warm up.

Explore Whole-Body-Openings where every cell comes alive!

You will learn Tantric secrets to expand Whole Body O’s

So you can make love last as long as you (BOTH) desire…

 

This will be a safe, relaxed and intimate environment

Dress comfortably sensual to express your playful essence.

Relax and enjoy exploring with confidence and new skills…

Discover more energy, intimacy and pleasure; at your core.

— Helpers – FREE ticket for you, inquire within —

 

Register here: Mare@MareSimone.com details will be sent.

Advance pay confirms your spot. Seating limited to 25

Refund if you cancel before 48 hrs. ahead of event.

— Or get credit toward other events or Private Sessions.

To cancel please inform by text ASAP. 

 

Our host – Todd Barrie is a Meetup member and a pro chef who warmly offered his home and culinary delights to nourish and enrich our sensual adventures into our soulful source of energy.  “You will discover what a magic meal truly is!” MB.

 

Arouse your senses.

Nourish your curiosity.

Live Life Lusciously!

See you there!

Sexual Healing & Empowerment on TV

Here is a News Piece I did for Telemundo TV:

In this #MeToo era, sexual healing and education is crutial to our evolution. So much is coming out of the shadows. I learned Tantra and became a Sex Surrogate partner because I knew I was wounded from sexual assults and needed healing. I learned as I healed my own sexual wounds, so I could help others who have any sexual trauma whether it be physical, psychological or emotional…
 

We can be traumatized by actions as well as words that condemn our primal desires to make us feel bad for having sexual desires. This is especially true for women who have been conditioned from a very early age to deny our sexual urges and to resist advances from others — instead of redirecting these attempts into a win-win.

This causes sexual tension that can be destructive and lead to sexual violence as I experienced in my own journey. When I forgave the perpetrators by realizing that they were products of a dark and unenlightened society, I was able to embrace true sexual healing and to forgive men in general. This allowed me to move beyond victim/perpetrator and develop a deep understanding and acceptance so that I can support others in their sexual healing as well.

I invite you to comment and if you wish to speak with me further, I welcome conversations on this shadowy subject that in many countries is either banned or under tight scrutiny. Even social medias have strict rules and guidelines that you put this video in a gray area. Let’s bring sexuality and pleasure back into the light of empowerment so we can bring more joy into this world at this time. Your feedback is appreciated. Like and share if you think this is important and valueable.

 

Helpers and Apprentices Wanted

Hiring – Virtual & Local

I need a team of folks with a passion for empowering pleasure world-wide! So I am posting this to my tribe… Pass it on!

Web-Master to update my site with SEO tags, compliances, commerce etc…
Graphic Artist, Brand Designer + logo HELP

Virtual Assistant: Newsletter, Mailing Lists, Private Email asst. and Social Media Marketing- Name your specialties this could likely be more than one position.

Personal Assistant: Local Help with Workshops and more!

Webinar Tech Support 

Video Editor  

Graphic Art  

Book Editor 

Local: Los Angeles, CA

Help with meetups and workshops

Video/Photographer 

Body Work & Tantra Massage

Dance and Partner Yoga Players to play with

Passionate People to interview for my upcoming Podcast on Empowering Pleasure

Pay negotiable. Interns and exchanging services for sessions and classes is most welcome.

Offering Private & Group Coaching Tantra Sessions on the phone or Skype. Workshops and Sessions by arangement.

The way that I work with my clients, students and apprentices is usually a combination of sessions on Skype or phone and in person.

Apply at: Mare@MareSimone.com

Please send a letter of introduction and tell  me why you would like to work with me! Please submit your resume and samples of your work, when applicable. Tell me why you’re inspired. What do you desire in exchange?! Salary and/or services negotiable.

All applicants will be reviewed and responded to.

 

 

 

 

 

Meeting of the Masters: Sex, Energy & Ecstatic Love -JAN 2018

Come EARLY &/or stay LONGER for private VIP-time with me here or NEAR!
Mantak chai

Taoist and Tantra Thailand Seminar SEX, ENERGY & ECSTATIC LOVE
with Masters Mantak Chia and Charles Muir
Join me in this organic garden Sanctuary Spa where you can have an
enlightening, healing & ecstatic vacation that will transform your life forever!

Sign up before May 30th to be 1 of 4 lucky registered winners to choose a free session from one of the following Expert Practitioners:
?ONE Life Force Chi Nei Tsang -Kar Sai with Solla Pizzuto, www.sollawellness.com 
?ONE Tantra Session with Mare Simone, www.maresimone.com  

Come EARLY &/or stay AFTER for private VIP day[s] with me
Discover your hidden sexual secrets to awaken your powers of love and pleasure!!

Sacred, Sensual Circle of Women Embodying Bliss, Gather!!

 Core-gasms ~ Come Alive from Within!!

Sisters love

  • Saturday, February 18, 2017  1-5pm

    Address provided upon registration, West Los Angeles, CA (map)

    Tap into the Source of your Yummiest You!  Wise Woman. Wonderfully Rich!

    Welcome Women!

    This is for you if you’re feeling alone, afraid, disconnected, outraged or blue this Valentine’s season, and time of major transitions… we need a refuge for our Souls to Survive and Thrive! So we are offering this Sacred Sisterhood Circle experience to delight and ignite you!!

    Come explore your Core-GASM and discover your Sacred Sexy Soul! Through play, dance, guided visualization, Q and A, expert guidance, and sisterhood support, you will discover how to capture and recharge the limitless Power and Wisdom within.

    Give yourself this Valentine
    Nourish and empower youself from within  as we connect
    Your Source of Pleasure, Power and Infinite Intelligence.

    Q & A on Love, Sex and Intimacy
    Lazar coaching from Greta and Mare, and our Eclectic Council of Women

    We will:

    • Clear blocks with cleansing breaths so you can live more fully alive.
    • Co-Create a state of inner sanctuary that will continue to sustain you daily.
    • Activate your Core to reunite with your unlimited Source of Power and Pleasure.
    • 1:1 coaching from gourmet tantrica and sex therapist to address unique challenges and edges for your next breakthrough.
    • Unleash and Anchor your bliss filled Visions to co-create OUR world Honoring Love, Peace and Pleasure.

    As a Sacred Sisterhood we will empower our body, visions and purpose, through pleasure and core-gasms!

    Shake our bodies awake through dance, playful movements, shimmying veils, bells, drums and shakers to charge up our circle of women to come FULLY alive. Awakening sacred feminine powers…

    Bring percussion instruments [if you have…] Also bring scarves and veils for yourself and some to share with others! Bring a few things you might like to give away as a gift of love. Anything from a flower to a CD or book you enjoyed… accessories or jewelry you want to give away.

    Join this Scrumptious Sisterhood Circle
    To Embody Your Pleasure and Empower Our Purpose.

    We celebrate your personal expansion, and offer support for your challenges, during and after this event. We intend to have regular Women’s circles once a month and would love you to join us for the journey and bring your friends along!!

    You will be supported by Mare Simone, a Gourmet Tantrica and Certified Surrogate Partner, and Greta Hassel Grace, sex educator and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

    When: Saturday, February 18, 1:00 – 5:00 pm,

    Where: Beautiful Yoga studio at a private address in Santa Monica. Address provided upon registration.

    $25 in advance. After Feb 11, $33. Special: Bring a friend FREE!
    Who: Mare Simone, ACTE and Greta Hassel, LMFT

    Meet your guides:

    Mare Simone, ACTE

    Mare is passionate about helping people develop the healing powers of orgasms. Transforming numbness and pain into profound pleasure. She learned through her own body Healing from trauma from numb to yum, the rewarding benefits of awakening and embodying pleasures.

    Exploring from the West to the East, Mare has been a Pioneer and connoisseur of Gourmet Sex for over 30 years. She brings you sensual and powerful practices of Tantra, yoga, massage, dance and other energizing tools to help access radiance and pleasures that are within us, waiting to be awakened and enjoyed and enrichened!

    Documented on major TV and print as in: ABC, NBC, HBO, ITV, PlayboyTV and more. Check out Mare’s YouTube Channel  Bio:  http://www.maresimone.com/meet-your-guide/

     

    Greta Hassel, LMFT

    Greta Hassel is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Intimacy Coach and Sexual Educator. Her Masters Degrees in Divinity and Psychology are the foundation for an education that includes the lifelong study of Modern Psychology, Ancient Wisdom and Sacred Sexuality. Her background, commitment and passion uniquely qualify her in healing the painful split between sex and spirit to restore the God given birthright of our sexual pleasure.

    Greta is the creator of the group “Love, God, and Sex”, and facilitates “The Red Tent Temple Los Angeles” for Women designed to activate the fire of women’s power and passion, and release the fragrance of one’s feminine essence. She has been featured on Fox, CBS, and a variety of radio interviews.

    Greta has worked with women and couples for over 25 years and has a private practice in Marina del Rey. Visit www.gretahassel.com, and http://www.adaraacademy.com for more info.

    Register: http://www.redtentlosangeles.com/come-alive-from-within.html

A Tantric Sex Surrogate explains how to increase intimacy for more powerful orgasms

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In the vast and Cosmo-flavored world of sex tips, there’s an overabundance of technical advice in circulation.

Touch her g-spot like so. Try the corkscrew blowjob. Put a pillow under your ass.

That kind of stuff.

Yet, there’s next to nothing out there that offers advice on how to build the intimacy that makes those techniques actually work. After all, you can only trace the alphabet on someone’s prostate so well without the viable emotional connection that makes it really fucking good … regardless of how fleeting that connection may be.

That’s a problem that Mare Simone solves every day in her practice. Simone is a certified tantric educator, sex surrogate and author who helps men and women learn to clear emotional and physical sexual blocks and view sex as an empowering, helpful tool. Part of that work includes instructing couples and individuals on how to build and maintain intimacy during sex, partially because the ability to create intimacy leads to greater confidence, and partially because more powerful orgasms happen from what she describes as a more “open, vulnerable state.”

Never ones to shy away from anything that makes us come more professionally, we asked her for some tips on how to create the intimate connection that primes us for a better bang.

Become a pro at eye contact

“I love to start couples facing each other, sitting up,” Simone says. “I have them talk about what they love about each other,  what they’d love more of, and what they’d love to experience with each other (like a fantasy or a desire) … all while looking into each other’s eyes and breathing those words in. When you maintain eye contact while talking about sexual desires, it really builds intimacy before the touch, which makes the actual touch more powerful when it does happen. Sometimes when you verbalize what you love or need, it can feel vulnerable or naked. But, it allows you to become open and let love, pleasure and acknowledgement in. That makes for really great sex.”

She also recommends incorporating eye contact into actual sex as well.

“Anytime you touch, touch with eye contact. Make love with your eyes open. It’s so rich … it feels like you’re diving deep into this pool and not shutting your eyes because you’re afraid of what’s at the bottom,” she adds.

But, it’s not like you have to keep your peepers wrenched open A Clockwork Orange-style; she fully acknowledges that there are times when it feels right to close them and sink into pleasure. In general though, she explains that the more eyes-open you are, the more connected you can be and the more powerful orgasms you can have.

“There’s a penetration of sorts that happens with eye contact,” she says. “And it can be really intense when you’re also having sex — it’s like you’re being penetrated from both sides.”

Experiment with face and hand caressing

“This, to me is one of the most beautiful things,” Simone says. “I love hand holding, hand touching, those sort of things. And sometimes when someone touches my face, it just feels so warm and giggly and sweet, like it activates some part of my inner child. That in itself is opening.”

One of the best positions she recommends for hand stuff is to have one partner place their hand downwards, and the other placing theirs upwards on top so they can feel the polar opposite of the other person. Then, from there, Simone suggests you play around with movement in your hands and fingers by stroking each other’s palms, wrists and fingertips. Even though doing this is nonverbal, Simone says it can help couples explore a lot of communication and sensation with each other; something that also works to build sexual tension and make each person feel more connected.

Long, caressing strokes to build tension

Simone is a big advocate of the long, slow, delicate stroke.

“Have one person put their hands up and receive their partner’s touch, while the other caresses their body. Start slowly at their face and, then make your way down the sides of their arms to their chest, finally finishing at their fingertips. Then, with permission, caress their breasts (if they have them), coming down across their stomach to their inner thighs.

Making these long, caressing strokes connects the body to the mind, which makes it much more emotional-feeling,” she says. “That’s where you become really open and the sex becomes really good. When you do this, you become vulnerable, so there’s no real game playing or social scripting of traditionally “sexy” roles. It’s just what you mean and what you feel.”

Do a little dance

On the more erotic end of the spectrum, Simone recommends you build tension and intimacy by dancing for your partner. It can be a sitting dance, or one standing up; a stripping thing or a more conservative one — whatever feels comfortable and gives your partner a display of your body. Of course, maintaining eye contact during the deed can make it that much more powerful.

If you crack up, you crack up. Try not to — we double dog dare you. Even if it’s the more masculine doing the dancing, Simone says the humor of it can cut through to the more relaxed, vulnerable place that makes the body more open for intimacy.

Moan together, in sync

“This can be immense if you can actually harmonize your orgasms,” Simone says. “But even if you can’t, sharing the same breath and sound intensifies things a lot. In tantra, energy moves on sound, so you double the energy when you sound together.”

That’s not to say that spontaneously moaning when your partner does will make you come or make the sex revolutionary … it’s more about doing it when it feels natural to. But, like all forms of breathing exercises, it does really place you in the moment. It’s hard to think about their sweaty, lumbering man boobs or the curious way your dad tries to tell you he loves you when you’re synchronizing your breath with someone while they squirt on your showiest throw pillows.

Sex | Rooster Magazine On-Line December 21, 2016 By Isabelle Kohn

 

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