Yoni Wisdom and Deep Pleasures

To feel inside of a woman with your soul, feel first with your touch, breath, lips, tongue and tones. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can receive to her ecstasy fully! What wondrous mysteries women can awaken within!? When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious man into our deepest most vulnerable parts we can be in hours of bliss within Then sex becomes a luscious meditation.
When Pleasure is Pain
Some women feel pain deep inside with deep hard penetration all the way in, to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not relaxed.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If tears arise pour love into her eyes and kiss those tears or something equally romantic and loving. Whatever you do, don’t give her a tissue right away and tell her to stop crying.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our heart if we can be conscious with our eyes open and see feel here and absorb the love that were receiving.
 
Sometimes it brings up everything unlike itself in order to be healed. That’s part of the process, stay with her and understand that it’s not about you. Give her room to rage if she needs, for a minute or two.
 
But don’t linger long in the darkness. Recognize its value for bringing you here and now and bring her back with love, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. It still helps if you encourage her to make some noise and release stuck energy without judgment.
 
Pour love into the painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our sex-tunnel[s]. That includes the base chakra as well
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace those phantom fears with conscious present love. It’s a deep spot no doctor can touch. A beloved [Tantric healer] can touch this cervix Om-Zone in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a blessed wand of light. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a hand-carved phallus of rose quartz for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slow with stillness pauses often to soften tight tissue and release memories of fear and pain. Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
It may be time to say so long to old armored past phantom pain, which no longer serves you.
 
Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Self healing through self love is an important and powerful part of the process. You may also require a guide to support you through the darkest parts.
 
Or to give you a kick start, at some point along the way. Sometimes it’s hard to see our own shadow in the proper perspective
 
I used to have that issue big time, until I learned to relax completely. Which takes trust and the ability to relax and soften, breathe and relax even move through the pain and numbness by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really are after you start to release the past.
 
Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
 
The release of all that tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure as sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful gasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open to full penetration without an ounce of resistance.
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
 

Juicy Goddess Gathering ~ Tantra Talk, Yoga, Dance & Ecstatic Breath for Women!!

Juicy Goddess Gathering: Sat MARCH 21st — 3rd Sat of every month in LA 2:00pm – 4pm
Tantra Goddess/Girl-Talk and experiential practices to heal, awaken and activate our Bliss Bodies.

Discussing deep topics of love, massage and sexual healing. Tantra sex tips. Fire Breath Orgasm, Amrita, Sacred Spot Massage and more… Gathering women who would like to meet regularly; to do deep inner work as a core group. As well as participate in co-ed gatherings, retreats and more.

Come with an open heart to explore and discuss women’s mysteries, magic and Tantric energy… Leave with treasures and new friends!
>> We’ll gather from 3 Meetup groups, so sign-ups are spreadout…

This gathering is for Women only because I want to get to know you and expand my women’s Tantra tribe with more local ladies. We will begin with a monthly intro, and see where this goes.

I also offer an event for men and women just after this gathering. Feel free to invite your friends and lovers!

• BRING:
$20 – Donation –
For more info or Register here
2 for 1 – Bring a Friend!

SEEKING: Locations. If you’d like to host an event and get lots of benefits, hugs and good karma, please let me know.
I’m actively seeking ideal compatible, environments some local and some getaways. Beginning humbly in my home to keep it cozy and intimate.

PS: HELP WANTED: TECH, IT Help in organizing and promoting Meetup events. Volunteers – Meet the community and get private time with me.

ASSISTANTS: Savvy Social Media markerting, Email, Newsletter etc. Local or Virtual! Volunteer possible salary.

Re-Flowering: Women Transforming Sex ~ Sacred Sisterhood

 

Monthly!  3rd Saturday of the month. 

Nurturing Tantra-Time for Women Only

Yoni Puja is a ritual to clear your past and re-awaken your sacred flower as your Source of pleasures, wisdom and Creative Energy.

“Deflowering” is a term used to describe “losing” one’s virginity. Two negative terms to describe the awakening of a woman’s sacred chambers of creation.

“ReFlowering”  honors and re-awaken Your Sacred Temple  to its original state of pure unity; free of trauma, shame or fear.

Tantric meditations with flowers, fruits and mudras [power positions of the hands] are used to activate this energy; fully clothed. Or not.

  • Come with an open heart to heal, explore and discuss sexuality
  • Share in Women’s mysteries, magic and delicious possibilities.
  • Leave with luscious discoveries with a new view of yourself.
    Tantric shifts that stay with you. Meet some new friends too!
  •  At a private residence LA, CA USA: address given upon registration
    $15 in advance $20 at door | 2 for 1 – Bring a Friend Free!

Confirm your space hereRe-Flowering

Refunds are offered as credit for any classes, other events or coaching sessions providing you inform Mare by text ASAP. Space is limited.  If you need to cancel please text ASAP.

Women talk about Experiencing the Pleasure we Desire…

Thrilled to be invited to speak at the  Sexual Freedom for Women [Virtual Summit] on my favorite topics.

Pleasure!   Pools of Pleasure and the blessings of Amrita = female ejaculation… 

Pools of Pleasure is airing Feb 2nd!

Do you want to feel more pleasure?

Are you frustrated with your sex-life?
Do you find yourself “stuck in your head” during sex?
Do you long for a deeper, passionate connection?

Maybe you have a sexless marriage/relationship altogether…

What if I told you that your deep-down belief that there’s more to sex than what you’re experiencing is right on—that you can ditch the shame or disgust you feel around sexuality and intimacy, release your inhibitions and finally experience the deep connection and pleasure you desire?!

You can! You’re invited to join my colleague, Kristina Campbell, for a complimentary event that brings together more than 20 experts in the field of sexuality—including me – Feb 2nd discussing one of my juciest topics!!

It’s called Sexual Freedom for Women: Release your Inhibitions, Deeply Connect and Unleash your Sexual Pleasure! It begins January 21st, and you can reserve your spot at no cost, below:

Discover Your Deepest Well Of Sexual Potential.
When you go to the link above and sign up to join us for this powerful event, you’ll discover that you’re not alone; there is so much that our culture doesn’t teach us about sexuality … and so much of what it does teach, is just plain wrong.

We will share advice for discovering what’s truly possible for you within your sexuality.

Specifically, you’ll learn:

• How to develop deeper self-love, so you can reclaim your sexual authenticity, feel comfortable asking for what you want, and find pleasure in sex again.
• How to overcome shame you experience around sex, your sexuality, and pleasure so you can finally become sexually free and confident.
• Everything you need to know about female genital anatomy (and how it works), so you understand where and how pleasure happens.
• What the divine feminine is, and how to access its energy and become empowered, sexually.
• How to create deeper, more meaningful sexual experiences through different techniques including Tantra, kink, embodiment and sensual dance.
• – AMRITA – Nectar of the Goddess! And so much more…

You’ll walk away with a host of tools and practices that have the potential to change your life.

Kristina is the perfect person to host this summit because she’s experienced her own journey to sexual connection and sexual pleasure. During her childhood, she experienced sexual trauma, which led her down a self-destructive path including drug use, dysfunctional relationships and deep self loathing. These experiences shut her down even further to intimacy and connection. She had no idea what her own needs were, or what she wanted when it came to sex.

Through the process of deep self-reflection, freeing her voice, owning her story, and connecting to her own needs and desires, she came to the realization that she deeply ached to experience more from her sexual connection.

She knew that the process of reclaiming her sexual authenticity was deeply connected to her spiritual growth and evolution as a human. By slowing down and listening, she was able to claim her “Yes” and experience the sexual connection she’d always longed for.

Now, she guides other women to connect with their deepest desires, release shame, and claim their sexual authenticity—which is why she’s hosting Sexual Freedom for Women, at no charge.

So go here now to reserve your spot on this video series, which begins January 21st:

You Are Whole. Complete. Brimming With Everything You Need.

If you’re ready to experience the pleasure and sexual freedom that are possible—no matter what you’ve gone through—then grab your spot here on this complimentary interview series, Sexual Freedom for Women: Join me for this amazing event.

Become Sexually Free And Confident.

It begins January 21st, and you can reserve your spot at no cost, below:

Sexual Freedom for Women and for the Men who LOVE US!
Be Empowered,

With Love,
Mare

PS: I am in LA and available for Live or Skype Virtual sessions.
PLUS I will be in FLORIDA for a few weeks Feb-March and I have a guest room for YOU…

Join me for an experience that will transform your sex-life for good!
PPS: Just reply for more info on Private Sessions in Person or on Skype.

©2019 Mare ❤ | Los Angeles, CA 90008

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Sexual Healing & Empowerment – 3 Part Series

This course is designed to help heal and awaken the sacred side of sex as a pathway to enlightenment. If you’ve felt trapped in shame, guilt, fear and pure ignorance about sex, that has kept us in the dark regarding the sacred side of sex. Eros has been revered by ancient cultures from India, China, Italy, Tibet, Egypt and even native Americans Indians viewed sex as the source of life and held sacred. The guardians of wisdom were refered to as Dakini’s [female] and Dhakas [males] in sanscrit. Initiators of the sacred erotic arts.

This knowledge of sexual energy as the force that creates life, can enable us to transform sexual abuse and assult in this #MeToo era into sexual honor and reverence with respectful dignity.

AWAKEN the GODDESS ~ Sexual Healing & Empowerment Series — Men & Women Part 1 of 3

Men and couples have tried to enroll in our monthly Goddess Gatherings and expressed their desire to participate…

Prompted by their desire and what feels like an emergence of my sacred sexual wisdom, I want to invite men to join in this journey.

Because women are so deep and deliciously mysterious; I feel called to help men and women understand each other in the most advantageous win-win ways!! So that everyone feels fully met, honored and adored.
[Don’t worry guys the next series will be focused on how to love men best].

Beginning with snacks and socializing:
Join a class of experiential exercises and live demos to explore…
Magical energies and healing powers of subtle, relaxed yin arousal. Him him him

This segment will provide wisdom teachings, practices, interactive exercises and live demos of energy O’s and more!

Part 1 – Nov 17th – 4:30 – 7pm Exercises to expand your sensitivity. Demos to ignite erotic enlightenment. Playful partner yoga exercises.
A safe container for women to relax, andtap into the energy of relaxed arousal. This helps us feel confident in our sensual depths to access more juicy energy and deeply satisfying connections.

Part 2 – Dec 15th – 4:30 – 7pm – Explore Your Erogenous Zones from head to toe. Meet and tune into the sensual side of ecstasy. Playful partner yoga exercises. Enjoy the Tantric way to ride the waves so men can enjoy multiples and Whole Body O’s!

Part 3 – Jan 19th – 4:30 – 7pm – Empower Pleasure & Embody Ecstasy – Yoni Puja Massage for Healing and Awakening. Empower the erotic goddess of love. You will learn to help clear blocks of sexual shame, assault, fear, and darkness. Replace them with playful, natural erotic innocence. Relaxed and juicy!

COMING TOGETHER ~ BODY & SOUL! Full day class for partnered
12-7pm – $400 per couple $997 for entire series
Erotic Enlighenment – 3 months immersion.

Part 1 and 2 are required in order to attend Part 3 live
— unless approved by Mare personally.
Intro classes will be recorded and live streamed so you can attend virtually from everywhere! And view the recordings anytime in the comfort of your own home.

$40 Couples / Single Men. Virtual
Women helpers – Free!! Bring foods to share
Come with a friend or lover!
RSPV – ASAP to attend.
Space is limited to 16 in Los Angeles.
Virtual guests may join on this page.

Stay tuned — more to come soon!

Love from,
Mare & the Erotic Explorer Tribe
http://MareSimone.com
Skype:TantraMare
Thanks!
Mare

Sexual-Healing & Awakening the Goddess In Woman – for Men & Women

 

Sexual-Healing & Awakening the Goddess Within – Part 1 of 3

Saturday, October 20 at 4:30 – 7 PM, beginning with hors d’oeuvres and socializing…
Join a class with experiential exercises and live demos exploring
Magical energies and healing powers of subtle, relaxed arousal.

This segment will provide wisdom teachings, practices, interactive exercises and live demos of energy O’s and more!.

A Lovers Guide to Empower Greatness:
Part 1 – Exercises and Demos to enlighten and expand your sensitivity.

We create a safe container for women to heal and open into,
We’ll help erase the scars of sexual shame, assault, fear, ignorance etc.
Replacing them with playful, relaxed arousal. Naturally free and yummy!

When women feel confident and empowered in our own sensual depths,
We actually gain access to more juicy energy and authentic intimate turn-ons.

$40 Couples / Single Men.
Women helpers – Free!!
Bring a friend or lover!

Virtual guests may join on this page. Enroll below:

RSPV – ASAP if you want to attend.
Space is limited to 16
Mare & Your Erotic Explorer Tribe
Skype:TantraMare

Yoni Massage for Sexual Healing and Empowerment

With this #MeToo era on the rise, as many painful memories are coming out from years of hiding, it is essential to have a safe go-to place where all is well. That’s where [self] Yoni massage can help a woman reclaim her sexuality with conscious dignity and information that can help reawaken the pure, powerful erotic godddess that was shut down in shame! This is for all woman to help us align with our greatest pleasures and release the pain that blocks our joy.

Women who do this for themselves are opening the channels to learn from our own feminine mysteries so we can guild our partners to love us better. And when you don’t have a partner this can empower you to be your own best lover.
Enjoy this interview with me, about how to give a YONI massage to yourself, for women… Helpful tips for magic touching for all lovers…

Spa menus are looking a lot different than they used to, with new massage modalities ranging from the woo-woo to the downright weird—think CBD-infused rub downs, high-vibe crystal massages, and celebrity-approved treatments that involve biting. (Yes, that’s a thing apparently.) But there’s one type of out-there massage that you definitely won’t be seeing at your favorite day spa any time soon: yoni massage.

Basically, a yoni massage is a tantric massage for your vagina, and its roots go way back. “The word ‘yoni’ comes from the ancient Sanskrit language,” says advanced certified tantra educator Mare Simone, who learned about yoni massage from Charles Muir, aka the godfather of Tantra. “It means the sacred space, where life comes from.”

Although a yoni massage can definitely lead to climax, an orgasm is actually not the intention. “The main goal [of a yoni massage] is really about healing and awakening pleasure,” Simone says. It’s meant to be an incredibly powerful, transformational experience more than anything else. (But if the Big O does happen, who’s going to complain?)

One of the benefits of a yoni massage is education. Most women are familiar with the external parts of the vagina, like the clitoris, but a lot of a woman’s erogenous zones are hidden, Simone says. Learning how to connect more with what’s inside the vaginal canal—hello, G spot!—can be super eye-opening.

The other major benefit of a yoni massage, Simone says, is to release tension and emotions that women tend to hold in their pelvic areas without even knowing it. And it doesn’t even have to be from violent sexual trauma, either—sometimes it’s just the fact that sex is still considered taboo or shameful in many circles.

You can give yourself a yoni massage or it can be done by a partner or even a professional, like Simone. But, for the sake of this article, she’s sharing the skinny on how to massage your own nether region. Just think of it as an especially mindful form of masturbation.

Keep reading for step-by-step tips on how to give yourself a yoni massage.
how to give yourself yoni massage therapy

Your Source for all things sensual. Click on the pic for an adventure in personal Sacred shopping…

Yoni massage 101
1. Create some ambiance

Before you get your yoni massage on, Simone suggests setting the scene with some mood lighting and perhaps taking a bath beforehand. And don’t shy away from making it special—for instance, you could sprinkle some flowers petals in the bath or on the bed, if that’s your thing.

2. Get clear on what you want from the experience

Simone recommends starting your massage by setting an intention that’s bigger than just having an orgasm. It could be something like opening your heart or attracting a partner. “These kind of intentions create a deeper pool for potential pleasure,” she says. “Then it becomes about something beyond the physical. That’s when it becomes truly a magical, cosmic, sexual experience. The kind that leaves you feeling transformed and liberated.”

3. Start with stillness

Before you get down to business, take a few moments to be still and connect with your body. Simone prescribes a mudra, which is a position of the hands that generates energy. To create the mudra, make a heart with your hands by touching your thumb and fingers together. Put the heart-shaped mudra directly over your vulva so your thumbs touch above the clitoris and your fingers are touching the shaft of the clitoris. Then just breathe into that space and feel whatever comes up without any expectation, she says. She says you can also take this time to have a little chat with your yoni, asking it what it wants and how it’s doing. (It won’t mind if you laugh while you’re doing this, promise.)

If the mood strikes, you can also add some movement to the mudra. “Dancing and making undulations and hip circles is a great way to warm up for a yoni massage,” Simone says. “It builds power and builds the blood flow into that region and gets it really easily engorged.”

4. Get handsy

Once you feel ready, you can start the massage action—and feel free to explore a little further than you usually would during your solo sexy time. “It’s really important to massage and palpate the entire vulva,” Simone says. This is also the perfect time to whip out some lubricant. Simone likes keeping things natural with some good old multi-purpose coconut oil, although there are now tons of clean lubes you can choose from. (What a time to be alive!)

There are various techniques in tantra that are used during a yoni massage. Penetration is one of them. Start with one finger, Simone says, preferably from your non dominant hand. (It’s more gentle.) Then, place your other hand over the clitoris. Making contact inside and outside simultaneously connects both areas. Next, you can tap the upper wall of the vaginal canal with your finger to fire up that area. Then move into circular movements and side-to-side strokes.

5. Listen your body

Throughout the process, the most important thing to remember is to move slowly. “Be curious and listen to [your] yoni with no goal other than to be with what’s present and honor her,” Simone says.

Feel for any tension, pain, or numbness. If you find some, hold that area and breathe into it to help release whatever is there. All sorts of emotions—fear, anger, sadness—or memories can arise. Simone recommends embracing it all and letting it up come up to the surface. Making any sounds that you need to make is also highly encouraged.

6. Pause if you get excited

Although it might be difficult, Simone encourages you to pause right before the happy ending. “Feel the excitement building and disperse some of that energy around, because then the orgasm becomes deeper and more fulfilling,” she says. “If you’re just racing towards the climax, it can be a very quick peak. But if a woman slows down and really trains herself to feel arousal like ripples of an ocean radiating throughout the body, then orgasm becomes big waves that continue.” Noted.

7. Enjoy the afterglow

Once your yoni massage has come to an end, take a moment to soak it all in, Simone says. She recommends cupping your yoni with one hand and placing the other hand on an area of your body where you want to channel that energy.

Afterwards, you can meditate or take a nap. Journaling is also a really powerful post-yoni-massage ritual. “So much can happen during [a yoni massage] that if you don’t capture it somehow, you might lose some of the subtle nuances of being in such a deep, connected place,” Simone explains. What was the experience like? What feelings, images, or memories came up? Write it all down—feel free to do it all again tomorrow. From: https://www.wellandgood.com/good-advice/yoni-massage-therapy/

Sexual Healing & Empowerment on TV

Here is a News Piece I did for Telemundo TV:

In this #MeToo era, sexual healing and education is crutial to our evolution. So much is coming out of the shadows. I learned Tantra and became a Sex Surrogate partner because I knew I was wounded from sexual assults and needed healing. I learned as I healed my own sexual wounds, so I could help others who have any sexual trauma whether it be physical, psychological or emotional…
 

We can be traumatized by actions as well as words that condemn our primal desires to make us feel bad for having sexual desires. This is especially true for women who have been conditioned from a very early age to deny our sexual urges and to resist advances from others — instead of redirecting these attempts into a win-win.

This causes sexual tension that can be destructive and lead to sexual violence as I experienced in my own journey. When I forgave the perpetrators by realizing that they were products of a dark and unenlightened society, I was able to embrace true sexual healing and to forgive men in general. This allowed me to move beyond victim/perpetrator and develop a deep understanding and acceptance so that I can support others in their sexual healing as well.

I invite you to comment and if you wish to speak with me further, I welcome conversations on this shadowy subject that in many countries is either banned or under tight scrutiny. Even social medias have strict rules and guidelines that you put this video in a gray area. Let’s bring sexuality and pleasure back into the light of empowerment so we can bring more joy into this world at this time. Your feedback is appreciated. Like and share if you think this is important and valueable.

 

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