Sexual Healing & Empowerment – 3 Part Series

This course is designed to help heal and awaken the sacred side of sex as a pathway to enlightenment. If you’ve felt trapped in shame, guilt, fear and pure ignorance about sex, that has kept us in the dark regarding the sacred side of sex. Eros has been revered by ancient cultures from India, China, Italy, Tibet, Egypt and even native Americans Indians viewed sex as the source of life and held sacred. The guardians of wisdom were refered to as Dakini’s [female] and Dhakas [males] in sanscrit. Initiators of the sacred erotic arts.

This knowledge of sexual energy as the force that creates life, can enable us to transform sexual abuse and assult in this #MeToo era into sexual honor and reverence with respectful dignity.

AWAKEN the GODDESS ~ Sexual Healing & Empowerment Series — Men & Women Part 1 of 3

Men and couples have tried to enroll in our monthly Goddess Gatherings and expressed their desire to participate…

Prompted by their desire and what feels like an emergence of my sacred sexual wisdom, I want to invite men to join in this journey.

Because women are so deep and deliciously mysterious; I feel called to help men and women understand each other in the most advantageous win-win ways!! So that everyone feels fully met, honored and adored.
[Don’t worry guys the next series will be focused on how to love men best].

Beginning with snacks and socializing:
Join a class of experiential exercises and live demos to explore…
Magical energies and healing powers of subtle, relaxed yin arousal. Him him him

This segment will provide wisdom teachings, practices, interactive exercises and live demos of energy O’s and more!

Part 1 – Nov 17th – 4:30 – 7pm Exercises to expand your sensitivity. Demos to ignite erotic enlightenment. Playful partner yoga exercises.
A safe container for women to relax, andtap into the energy of relaxed arousal. This helps us feel confident in our sensual depths to access more juicy energy and deeply satisfying connections.

Part 2 – Dec 15th – 4:30 – 7pm – Explore Your Erogenous Zones from head to toe. Meet and tune into the sensual side of ecstasy. Playful partner yoga exercises. Enjoy the Tantric way to ride the waves so men can enjoy multiples and Whole Body O’s!

Part 3 – Jan 19th – 4:30 – 7pm – Empower Pleasure & Embody Ecstasy – Yoni Puja Massage for Healing and Awakening. Empower the erotic goddess of love. You will learn to help clear blocks of sexual shame, assault, fear, and darkness. Replace them with playful, natural erotic innocence. Relaxed and juicy!

COMING TOGETHER ~ BODY & SOUL! Full day class for partnered
12-7pm – $400 per couple $997 for entire series
Erotic Enlighenment – 3 months immersion.

Part 1 and 2 are required in order to attend Part 3 live
— unless approved by Mare personally.
Intro classes will be recorded and live streamed so you can attend virtually from everywhere! And view the recordings anytime in the comfort of your own home.

$40 Couples / Single Men. Virtual
Women helpers – Free!! Bring foods to share
Come with a friend or lover!
RSPV – ASAP to attend.
Space is limited to 16 in Los Angeles.
Virtual guests may join on this page.

Stay tuned — more to come soon!

Love from,
Mare & the Erotic Explorer Tribe
http://MareSimone.com
Skype:TantraMare
Thanks!
Mare

Sexual-Healing & Awakening the Goddess Within Every Woman – Part 1 of 3 for Men & Women

Many men have tried to enroll in the Goddess Gatherings and expressed their desire to learn. So I NOW offer a co-ed class after the women’s group — For men too!

Sexual-Healing & Awakening the Goddess Within – Part 1 of 3

Saturday, October 20 at 4:30 – 7 PM, beginning with hors d’oeuvres and socializing…
Join a class with experiential exercises and live demos exploring
Magical energies and healing powers of subtle, relaxed arousal.

This segment will provide wisdom teachings, practices, interactive exercises and live demos of energy O’s and more!.

A Lovers Guide to Empower Greatness:
Part 1 – Exercises and Demos to enlighten and expand your sensitivity.

We create a safe container for women to heal and open into,
We’ll help erase the scars of sexual shame, assault, fear, ignorance etc.
Replacing them with playful, relaxed arousal. Naturally free and yummy!

When women feel confident and empowered in our own sensual depths,
We actually gain access to more juicy energy and authentic intimate turn-ons.

$40 Couples / Single Men.
Women helpers – Free!!
Bring a friend or lover!

Virtual guests may join on this page. Enroll below:

RSPV – ASAP if you want to attend.
Space is limited to 16

{Larger venues wanted. Let me know if you’d like to host – multiple benefits please inquire!}

Love
Mare & Your Erotic Explorer Tribe
http://MareSimone.com
Skype:TantraMare

Juicy Goddess Gathering ~ Tantra Talk, Yoga, Dance & Ecstatic Breath for Women!!

Juicy Goddess Gathering: Sat OCT 20th — 3rd Sat of every month in LA 2:00pm – 4pm
Tantra Goddess/Girl-Talk and experiential practices to heal, awaken and activate our Bliss Bodies.

Discussing deep topics of love, massage and sexual healing. Tantra sex tips. Fire Breath Orgasm, Amrita, Sacred Spot Massage and more… Gathering women who would like to meet regularly; to do deep inner work as a core group. As well as participate in co-ed gatherings, retreats and more.

Come with an open heart to explore and discuss women’s mysteries, magic and Tantric energy… Leave with treasures and new friends!
>> We’ll gather from 3 Meetup groups, so sign-ups are spreadout…

This gathering is for Women only because I want to get to know you and expand my women’s Tantra tribe with more local ladies. We will begin with a monthly intro, and see where this goes.

I also offer an event for men and women just after this gathering. Feel free to invite your friends and lovers!

• BRING:
$20 – Donation –
For more info or Register here
2 for 1 – Bring a Friend!

SEEKING: Locations. If you’d like to host an event and get lots of benefits, hugs and good karma, please let me know.
I’m actively seeking ideal compatible, environments some local and some getaways. Beginning humbly in my home to keep it cozy and intimate.

PS: HELP WANTED: TECH, IT Help in organizing and promoting Meetup events. Volunteers – Meet the community and get private time with me.

ASSISTANTS: Savvy Social Media markerting, Email, Newsletter etc. Local or Virtual! Volunteer possible salary.

Yoni Massage for Sexual Healing and Empowerment

With this #MeToo era on the rise, as many painful memories are coming out from years of hiding, it is essential to have a safe go-to place where all is well. That’s where [self] Yoni massage can help a woman reclaim her sexuality with conscious dignity and information that can help reawaken the pure, powerful erotic godddess that was shut down in shame! This is for all woman to help us align with our greatest pleasures and release the pain that blocks our joy.

Women who do this for themselves are opening the channels to learn from our own feminine mysteries so we can guild our partners to love us better. And when you don’t have a partner this can empower you to be your own best lover.
Enjoy this interview with me, about how to give a YONI massage to yourself, for women… Helpful tips for magic touching for all lovers…

Spa menus are looking a lot different than they used to, with new massage modalities ranging from the woo-woo to the downright weird—think CBD-infused rub downs, high-vibe crystal massages, and celebrity-approved treatments that involve biting. (Yes, that’s a thing apparently.) But there’s one type of out-there massage that you definitely won’t be seeing at your favorite day spa any time soon: yoni massage.

Basically, a yoni massage is a tantric massage for your vagina, and its roots go way back. “The word ‘yoni’ comes from the ancient Sanskrit language,” says advanced certified tantra educator Mare Simone, who learned about yoni massage from Charles Muir, aka the godfather of Tantra. “It means the sacred space, where life comes from.”

Although a yoni massage can definitely lead to climax, an orgasm is actually not the intention. “The main goal [of a yoni massage] is really about healing and awakening pleasure,” Simone says. It’s meant to be an incredibly powerful, transformational experience more than anything else. (But if the Big O does happen, who’s going to complain?)

One of the benefits of a yoni massage is education. Most women are familiar with the external parts of the vagina, like the clitoris, but a lot of a woman’s erogenous zones are hidden, Simone says. Learning how to connect more with what’s inside the vaginal canal—hello, G spot!—can be super eye-opening.

The other major benefit of a yoni massage, Simone says, is to release tension and emotions that women tend to hold in their pelvic areas without even knowing it. And it doesn’t even have to be from violent sexual trauma, either—sometimes it’s just the fact that sex is still considered taboo or shameful in many circles.

You can give yourself a yoni massage or it can be done by a partner or even a professional, like Simone. But, for the sake of this article, she’s sharing the skinny on how to massage your own nether region. Just think of it as an especially mindful form of masturbation.

Keep reading for step-by-step tips on how to give yourself a yoni massage.
how to give yourself yoni massage therapy

Your Source for all things sensual. Click on the pic for an adventure in personal Sacred shopping…


Yoni massage 101
1. Create some ambiance

Before you get your yoni massage on, Simone suggests setting the scene with some mood lighting and perhaps taking a bath beforehand. And don’t shy away from making it special—for instance, you could sprinkle some flowers petals in the bath or on the bed, if that’s your thing.

2. Get clear on what you want from the experience

Simone recommends starting your massage by setting an intention that’s bigger than just having an orgasm. It could be something like opening your heart or attracting a partner. “These kind of intentions create a deeper pool for potential pleasure,” she says. “Then it becomes about something beyond the physical. That’s when it becomes truly a magical, cosmic, sexual experience. The kind that leaves you feeling transformed and liberated.”

3. Start with stillness

Before you get down to business, take a few moments to be still and connect with your body. Simone prescribes a mudra, which is a position of the hands that generates energy. To create the mudra, make a heart with your hands by touching your thumb and fingers together. Put the heart-shaped mudra directly over your vulva so your thumbs touch above the clitoris and your fingers are touching the shaft of the clitoris. Then just breathe into that space and feel whatever comes up without any expectation, she says. She says you can also take this time to have a little chat with your yoni, asking it what it wants and how it’s doing. (It won’t mind if you laugh while you’re doing this, promise.)

If the mood strikes, you can also add some movement to the mudra. “Dancing and making undulations and hip circles is a great way to warm up for a yoni massage,” Simone says. “It builds power and builds the blood flow into that region and gets it really easily engorged.”

4. Get handsy

Once you feel ready, you can start the massage action—and feel free to explore a little further than you usually would during your solo sexy time. “It’s really important to massage and palpate the entire vulva,” Simone says. This is also the perfect time to whip out some lubricant. Simone likes keeping things natural with some good old multi-purpose coconut oil, although there are now tons of clean lubes you can choose from. (What a time to be alive!)

There are various techniques in tantra that are used during a yoni massage. Penetration is one of them. Start with one finger, Simone says, preferably from your non dominant hand. (It’s more gentle.) Then, place your other hand over the clitoris. Making contact inside and outside simultaneously connects both areas. Next, you can tap the upper wall of the vaginal canal with your finger to fire up that area. Then move into circular movements and side-to-side strokes.

5. Listen your body

Throughout the process, the most important thing to remember is to move slowly. “Be curious and listen to [your] yoni with no goal other than to be with what’s present and honor her,” Simone says.

Feel for any tension, pain, or numbness. If you find some, hold that area and breathe into it to help release whatever is there. All sorts of emotions—fear, anger, sadness—or memories can arise. Simone recommends embracing it all and letting it up come up to the surface. Making any sounds that you need to make is also highly encouraged.

6. Pause if you get excited

Although it might be difficult, Simone encourages you to pause right before the happy ending. “Feel the excitement building and disperse some of that energy around, because then the orgasm becomes deeper and more fulfilling,” she says. “If you’re just racing towards the climax, it can be a very quick peak. But if a woman slows down and really trains herself to feel arousal like ripples of an ocean radiating throughout the body, then orgasm becomes big waves that continue.” Noted.

7. Enjoy the afterglow

Once your yoni massage has come to an end, take a moment to soak it all in, Simone says. She recommends cupping your yoni with one hand and placing the other hand on an area of your body where you want to channel that energy.

Afterwards, you can meditate or take a nap. Journaling is also a really powerful post-yoni-massage ritual. “So much can happen during [a yoni massage] that if you don’t capture it somehow, you might lose some of the subtle nuances of being in such a deep, connected place,” Simone explains. What was the experience like? What feelings, images, or memories came up? Write it all down—feel free to do it all again tomorrow. From: https://www.wellandgood.com/good-advice/yoni-massage-therapy/

Sexual Healing & Empowerment on TV

Here is a News Piece I did for Telemundo TV:

In this #MeToo era, sexual healing and education is crutial to our evolution. So much is coming out of the shadows. I learned Tantra and became a Sex Surrogate partner because I knew I was wounded from sexual assults and needed healing. I learned as I healed my own sexual wounds, so I could help others who have any sexual trauma whether it be physical, psychological or emotional…
 

We can be traumatized by actions as well as words that condemn our primal desires to make us feel bad for having sexual desires. This is especially true for women who have been conditioned from a very early age to deny our sexual urges and to resist advances from others — instead of redirecting these attempts into a win-win.

This causes sexual tension that can be destructive and lead to sexual violence as I experienced in my own journey. When I forgave the perpetrators by realizing that they were products of a dark and unenlightened society, I was able to embrace true sexual healing and to forgive men in general. This allowed me to move beyond victim/perpetrator and develop a deep understanding and acceptance so that I can support others in their sexual healing as well.

I invite you to comment and if you wish to speak with me further, I welcome conversations on this shadowy subject that in many countries is either banned or under tight scrutiny. Even social medias have strict rules and guidelines that you put this video in a gray area. Let’s bring sexuality and pleasure back into the light of empowerment so we can bring more joy into this world at this time. Your feedback is appreciated. Like and share if you think this is important and valueable.

 

Sexual Healing – What is it & Who needs it?

Do you, or someone you love, struggle to let go… chasing after orgasms?

OR – Do you/they disconnect, disassociate or simply zone-out during sex?

Do you sometimes feel Pain or Numb, during Sex?  Have you or your partner ever been a victim of sexual violation, rape or domestic violence? I’ve worked with many cases where these symptoms, are signs of unresolved sexual trauma.

Physical or verbal abuses can cause blocks to pleasure and orgasms, even with loving advances, from your current partner.

Abuse leaves an imprint in our memory that can render us disconnected from feelings of love.  We “check-out” to avoid the memories which obstructs present time intimacy. This is a common shield to block and try to forget the past. The problem is these shields prevent us from feeling, even when we desire intimacy.

Traumatizing experiences leave imprints of fear that block us from feeling physical or emotional connections. Even years later with another partner, the memories of abuse linger in the cells of our body  until they are discharged.

This cellular memory, also referred to as muscle memory creates patterns of tension based on how we responded to sex. 

These negative imprints need to be discharged in order to make space for more positive ones.  Like a “sexorcism”, first removing the ghosts of trauma past. Then you can have a total Sex Life Makeover and be free to love with your whole body, heart and soul.

I know this process firsthand, because I’ve been through the fire of transformation myself. And I’ve developed the compassion and capability to help thousands of others.  In my 30 years of being in service and dedicated to sexual healing I’ve helped men and women to transform their pain and numbness of shame, into life-changing pleasure.

I help couples as well as individuals address trauma related sexual issues. This work has created massive interest and opportunities for me to reach numerous men and women, who want and need my help.

Sacred, Sensual Circle of Women Embodying Bliss, Gather!!

 Core-gasms ~ Come Alive from Within!!

Sisters love

  • Saturday, February 18, 2017  1-5pm

    Address provided upon registration, West Los Angeles, CA (map)

    Tap into the Source of your Yummiest You!  Wise Woman. Wonderfully Rich!

    Welcome Women!

    This is for you if you’re feeling alone, afraid, disconnected, outraged or blue this Valentine’s season, and time of major transitions… we need a refuge for our Souls to Survive and Thrive! So we are offering this Sacred Sisterhood Circle experience to delight and ignite you!!

    Come explore your Core-GASM and discover your Sacred Sexy Soul! Through play, dance, guided visualization, Q and A, expert guidance, and sisterhood support, you will discover how to capture and recharge the limitless Power and Wisdom within.

    Give yourself this Valentine
    Nourish and empower youself from within  as we connect
    Your Source of Pleasure, Power and Infinite Intelligence.

    Q & A on Love, Sex and Intimacy
    Lazar coaching from Greta and Mare, and our Eclectic Council of Women

    We will:

    • Clear blocks with cleansing breaths so you can live more fully alive.
    • Co-Create a state of inner sanctuary that will continue to sustain you daily.
    • Activate your Core to reunite with your unlimited Source of Power and Pleasure.
    • 1:1 coaching from gourmet tantrica and sex therapist to address unique challenges and edges for your next breakthrough.
    • Unleash and Anchor your bliss filled Visions to co-create OUR world Honoring Love, Peace and Pleasure.

    As a Sacred Sisterhood we will empower our body, visions and purpose, through pleasure and core-gasms!

    Shake our bodies awake through dance, playful movements, shimmying veils, bells, drums and shakers to charge up our circle of women to come FULLY alive. Awakening sacred feminine powers…

    Bring percussion instruments [if you have…] Also bring scarves and veils for yourself and some to share with others! Bring a few things you might like to give away as a gift of love. Anything from a flower to a CD or book you enjoyed… accessories or jewelry you want to give away.

    Join this Scrumptious Sisterhood Circle
    To Embody Your Pleasure and Empower Our Purpose.

    We celebrate your personal expansion, and offer support for your challenges, during and after this event. We intend to have regular Women’s circles once a month and would love you to join us for the journey and bring your friends along!!

    You will be supported by Mare Simone, a Gourmet Tantrica and Certified Surrogate Partner, and Greta Hassel Grace, sex educator and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

    When: Saturday, February 18, 1:00 – 5:00 pm,

    Where: Beautiful Yoga studio at a private address in Santa Monica. Address provided upon registration.

    $25 in advance. After Feb 11, $33. Special: Bring a friend FREE!
    Who: Mare Simone, ACTE and Greta Hassel, LMFT

    Meet your guides:

    Mare Simone, ACTE

    Mare is passionate about helping people develop the healing powers of orgasms. Transforming numbness and pain into profound pleasure. She learned through her own body Healing from trauma from numb to yum, the rewarding benefits of awakening and embodying pleasures.

    Exploring from the West to the East, Mare has been a Pioneer and connoisseur of Gourmet Sex for over 30 years. She brings you sensual and powerful practices of Tantra, yoga, massage, dance and other energizing tools to help access radiance and pleasures that are within us, waiting to be awakened and enjoyed and enrichened!

    Documented on major TV and print as in: ABC, NBC, HBO, ITV, PlayboyTV and more. Check out Mare’s YouTube Channel  Bio:  http://www.maresimone.com/meet-your-guide/

     

    Greta Hassel, LMFT

    Greta Hassel is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Intimacy Coach and Sexual Educator. Her Masters Degrees in Divinity and Psychology are the foundation for an education that includes the lifelong study of Modern Psychology, Ancient Wisdom and Sacred Sexuality. Her background, commitment and passion uniquely qualify her in healing the painful split between sex and spirit to restore the God given birthright of our sexual pleasure.

    Greta is the creator of the group “Love, God, and Sex”, and facilitates “The Red Tent Temple Los Angeles” for Women designed to activate the fire of women’s power and passion, and release the fragrance of one’s feminine essence. She has been featured on Fox, CBS, and a variety of radio interviews.

    Greta has worked with women and couples for over 25 years and has a private practice in Marina del Rey. Visit www.gretahassel.com, and http://www.adaraacademy.com for more info.

    Register: http://www.redtentlosangeles.com/come-alive-from-within.html

How my Yoni Massage brought Unexpected Healing & Orgasm

Enjoy this powerfully vulnerable, personal review about Tantric Touch-Therapy and how it helped deepen Melissa’s Love-Life! Honored to be able to help! I celebrate transformations from NUMB to YUM!!   As I have been there too.

Can you relate to Numbness or Pain where there should be pleasure?  If so or for someone you love, can benefit from reading this story.

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… Last fall, I traveled to Los Angeles, California. While I was there, I decided it would be a great place to search out the elusive yoni massage.

I expected LA to be the mecca of yoni services, and to a certain extent, it was. That is, if you’re looking for vaginal steaming, reconstructive surgery or other “plastic” services related to the appearance of one’s yoni. But a true, healing, tantric yoni massage was difficult to find.

I searched the internet, Yelp, Facebook nearby places, Trip Advisor and other social media sites to find a reputable place. Finally, after a few hours searching, I connected with Mare.

Mare’s website was professional. She had a long history of tantric experience and had been a sex surrogate for couples. She had a number of outstanding testimonials on her website as well. We chatted on the phone for an hour or so, and she had me complete some paperwork, which included thoughtful questions about my background and current relationship. (I was in a committed relationship at the time. My boyfriend was aware of and supportive of my quest for yoni healing.)

A couple days later, I drove two hours up the Pacific Coast Highway to Mare’s bungalow in the mountains. It was a beautiful sunny day, and I was excited about the prospect of things to come. When I arrived, she greeted me with a cheerful hug and lots of compliments. We sat at her kitchen table and talked for an hour or more. In all, I spent more than four hours at her bungalow, mostly in her bed.

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Soucre Tantra: Your ultimate source for sensual pleasures. Click on the pic for an adventure in personal, sacred shopping…

Her bed had fairy lights strung about and beautiful scarves strewn across the four posts. After our conversation, she asked me to remove my clothes and lie down.

She began with an actual massage

Because I’ve had pain in my body for a long time, I regularly get massages. They are therapeutic for me, not sexy. I rarely get turned on by a massage, regardless of who performs them.

On this day, however, that was not the case. Mare’s massage was extremely sensual, and I felt aroused. This surprised me, because I’d never been touched by a woman in a sensual way. It wasn’t long before she teased my yoni and slipped her fingers inside.

She knew what she was doing. She searched for hotspots, numbness and areas where I held pain. Almost immediately, she sensed trauma in a specific area and asked me what I was feeling and thinking about.

Ugh. My mother. What the hell? Why in the world would I be thinking about my mother when a woman had her fingers in my vagina?

Sadly, I knew exactly why: because sex was always shameful in my family. In that moment, I was ready to release the shame that plagued my sex life. Mare massaged my yoni, and I let go of the shame that had been locked there throughout my life.

Next up, my ex-husband.

Another ugh.

But not a surprise at all. Sex with him was routine; I wanted to return to the mindset where sex was something I enjoyed—not something I did out of obligation. Once again, Mare pleasured my yoni and I cleared the sense of duty that had lain hidden in my yoni for the last 22 years.

Once those two major energetic blocks were cleared, it was onto pleasure from there. I wanted desperately to have an orgasm, as I had only had a few in my 44 years.

The session ended in a major climax—better than the orgasm I had hoped for. A deep love for myself and my lover overcame me, and I broke down in a tearful release.

It was another week before I returned to my boyfriend. After he picked me up from the airport, we made love for the first time in more than two weeks, and it was the most heart-connected sex either of us had ever had.

Part of the connection was the absence from one another, I’m sure, but there was obviously something different with me as well. I’m not certain I can explain it; however, I can tell you I felt extremely liberated.

I’m now free from the beliefs I carried within my yoni. These expectations consciously or unconsciously clouded every relationship and sexual encounter I had had. It’s no wonder the doctrine of shame, obligation and distress blocked my ability to have an orgasm.

Since working with Mare, I’ve had little trouble having an orgasm with a partner or alone. My time with Mare is one of the best gifts I could have given myself. I’m thankful to be able to share this new sense of connection versus the disconnection I previously had with my future partner.

My gifted healer, Mare Simone refers to this revolutionary treatment as one that “releases tension and blocked memories and invites a natural state of pleasure to return to the yoni.”

If you’ve not heard of or researched this treatment, I highly recommend it.

May it be of benefit.

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Author: Melissa Drake

Image: Darla Hueske/Flickr

Editor: Toby Israel

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How my Yoni Massage brought Unexpected Healing & Orgasm

Courtesy of The Elephant Journal: by Melissa Drake

Thank you for reading… your comments and if inspired, SHARING this with your friends and partners who can benefit from this information is really appreciated and can safe a marriage!

 

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Sound and Pleasure

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