This is the question that I get asked the most.

It is possible that a man can have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. It’s not about withholding the orgasm, as some staunch traditionalists or unenlightened people might think; it’s really about diverting the ejaculation, inward and outward so that it turns into streams of pleasurable energy that can look and feel orgasmic, but without the release! Through deep relaxation and focus of the mind a man can become not just Multi-Orgasmic… but also Full Body Orgasmic! (more…)

We left off from discussing the power of orgasmic energy, cultivating and storing sexual energy by relaxing in the bliss of aroused states. Without the rush to climax, he can experience a deeper and more expanding field of arousal, much like a woman can. Especially when her partner is familiar with what I call the O-Zone.

This is when a man is relaxed and aroused at the same time. This requires practice and guildance until the Zone becomes your hOMe! A man can be in so much bliss and feelings of love, joy and free to dive deep and connect — taking his woman to climax in deep vaginal orgasms! The deepest zone inside her love tunnel can be powerfully orgasmic, if she is open and receptive. I call this area deep inside the OMG-Zone! Becauuse that’s a place where the most profound and deep pleasure comes from. The zone that makes woman scream O-MY-GAWD! It’s been the experience of many woman I have spoken to about this, myself included.

But the caveat is that it takes women longer to open and she blossoms best with clitoral, vulva and G-Zone engorgement to acheive this depth of pleasure!! But if she’s not ready, deep plunging thrusts can be either painful or numbing. (Ladies please chime in on this topic, in the comments section!)

I discuss how to open her like a flower to give her the deep pleasure she craves in “O-Zone – Opening to Pleasure” my webinar series on satisfying woman. But here’s a few tips till then: Follow her lead in response to your touch. Don’t rush, allow her to open and guide you. Ask questions if you are unsure and encourage her communications. Pace yourself and pause… look in her eyes often, tell her what you love about her. Be honest and open to learn and explore together!

In the afterglow of a long, deep love dance, men can feel satieted even when they don’t ejaculate at all. Men often report that they feel a glow in their genitals and a mildly aroused tingle in their balls that feels good and empowering long after!

This is the opposite of “blue balls”! A term that describes a common occurence when a man does not acheive whole body expanded arousal yet holds his seed, it can often lead to a heavy feeling which can cause discomfort and frustration. This is not that, but rather a powerful and effective way to connect more deeply with your partner in profound pleasure, while savoring every sensation.

The Power of Sexual Transmutation

An advanced level of sexual empowerment is a practice sometimes referred to as ‘sexual transmutation’ where you learn to gather this pulsing pleasure energy that has the power to create life and redirect it to charge up whatever you choose to focus on!

In this creative aroused state men and women are highly receptive and most impressionable. So whatever you think about while aroused, at climax and in the afterglow, becomes deeply imprinted in your subconscious mind.

Think positive thoughts and focus your mind on what you want to manifest or attract into your life, while you are actually aroused!

Then you can transmute this energy as Napoleon Hill’s referenced in chapter 11 of his best-seller, “Think and Grow Rich” In the chapter he entitled, The Mystery of Sex Transmutation.

Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered how to give sex
emotion an outlet through some form of creative effort, for he has, by that
discovery, lifted himself to the status of a genius.
When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage,
will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other
times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men
freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.

When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force
maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc.,
which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or
in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.

Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires”. Napoleon Hill of Think & Grow Rich The Mystery of Sex Transmutation

Applying the rules of Sexual Transmutation, you charge up your entire body in the aroused state which continues in peaks and valleys. Tingling every cell, nourished by your elixir of life. You can learn to cultivate this vibrant energy and direct it to areas of your body that are lacking in vitality for self-healing and awakening pleasure. And then share this realm with your partner for deeper intimacy and emotional connection.

In a Tantric orgasm where you you are bathing in a pool of pleasure that leaves you feeling more vibrant and energized than when you began! This afterglow will have long-lasting effects on your day and journey through life. Especially your love-life. I call this Making Love Magic!

A primary factor in the success of this transmutation practice is that the energy of arousal be honored and valued as the power of creation. Tantric & Taoist Masters learn to channel this energy in beneficial ways that empower their life endeavors and intentions!

This has an additional benefit of satisfying the sexual appetite of his partner at the same time! When a man can last long enough to provide a woman deep powerful and even multiple orgasms, both are blessed in the bliss that helps keep them young and vital!

Spilling the seeds in the heat of passion quickly disperses its potential power. Men who release often and quickly are missing out on the benefits of sustained sexual arousal. The first thing men must do is learn to relax and breathe deeply while feeling aroused. At first this takes some practice because for most men your instinct will naturally kick in, quickening your urge to release. Your body is programmed to procreate as its primary sexual function. Skills we are discussing here come from an advanced system that use sexual energy as a way to tap into the source of creation in all its power and glory. As much pleasure as you [and your partner] can handle, which naturally increases over time as your experiences involve.

Those who practice with diligence until they fully realize this state can learn to ultimately access it with confidence and mastery. They and their partners become blessed in an orgasmic field of attraction and expanded conscious awareness!

These sexually enlightened men often say that the desire to release is replaced with a profound pleasure that’s more satisfying and long-lasting! Rather than fighting the urge to release, they become immersed in the magic of the moment. Then the satisfaction they feel from drawing orgasmic energy inward is so much more fulfilling and long-lasting, that they don’t ever want it to end. Nor do their partners! Men can last with ease for a long time with these tools.

The desire to ejaculate is replaced by an exhilaration of the entire body that is much greater! And it is more bonding for partners because it allows women to reach deep ecstatic states that are yet unawakened by most. It solves the rampant problem afflicting over 70% of women who struggle to orgasm easily through intercourse, to help them to discover new horizons. I call this process: The Whole Body Opening!

When a man can achieve this state, he is then truly able to rock a woman’s world and fill her with ecstasy from the inside out, through the magic of his wand!

I call this area deep inside the OMG-Zone! Becauuse that’s a place where the most profound and deep pleasure comes from.

This is the zone that makes woman scream O-MY-GAWD! It’s been the experience of many woman I have spoken to about this, myself included. But the caveat is that it takes women longer to open and she blossoms best with clitoral, vulva and G-Zone engorgement to acheive this depth of pleasure!! But if she’s not ready, deep plunging thrusts can be either painful or numbing. (Ladies please chime in on this topic, in the comments section!)

I discuss how to open her like a flower to give her the deep pleasure she craves in “O-Zone – Opening to Pleasure” my webinar series on satisfying woman. But here’s a few tips till then: Follow her lead in response to your touch. Don’t rush, allow her to open and guide you. Ask questions if you are unsure and encourage her communications. Pace yourself and pause… look in her eyes often, tell her what you love about her. Be honest and open to learn and explore together!

For the man who is ready to discover his full potential and yearns for more than classic cum-and-done, the teacher will appear.

I’m not implying that men should never ejaculate, but rather do it consciously only after he has fully pleased his partner, when possible! Or on special occasions like full moons, birthdays and other holy days when the potential for manifestation through Orgasmic Attraction is greatest.

When safe, Tantra honors sexual body fluids anointing and blessing one another in It’s vibrant essence!

If you are interested in this depth of experience, I can help and would be honored to arrange for a private consultation to discuss this with you privately.

It is my greatest pleasure to support you in this process. I can offer you the keys to unlock this experience remotely on Skype and/or phone sessions along with email guidance! Online classes coming soon!

And when the opportunity arises, we can also meet in person for private sessions one-on-one or with your partner. Till then…
Love! MaMare’

“Lingam” is an empowering Tantra term for a man’s sex organ! It comes from Sanskrit and is best translated as the “Wand of Light and Power”. This wand is magical because it is a conduit that receives, stores and generates the power that creates life! Therefore it is a manifestor with the power to create, not only new life, but a brainchild as well.

It is adjoined with a massive network of circuits called ‘Nadis’ which connect every organ throughout your body! Nadis correspond to the nerves and subtle energy channels which flow along your spine and out the top of your head through a circuit of centers; known as Chakras.

Chakras are aligned along your spine and each corresponds with all your major organs and endocrine system. There are seven major chakras from your base, to your “magic wand”, up to your solar plexus, then your heart, your throat, your third eye, and ultimately the crown chakra at the top of your head.

Your Lingam becomes an empowered Wand of Light when is engorged with creative life forces. Aroused it can illuminate others with pleasure. Glowing with this radiance for extended periods of time, it becomes super-charged and able to generate profound Pleasure along with magnetic energies that enhance whatever you focus on.

Meditating on pleasure is a quick way to ease stress, helping you relax more deeply, even while feeling highly aroused! Here lies a key to achieving whole body orgasms which stream inward rather than out. In this way your energy flows like a fountain of rejuvenating life-forces throughout your entire body.

See for yourself by cultivating arousal without releasing the seed. Instead intentionally channel it toward a desired outcome, as this helps develop your powers to create. You can learn to draw sexual energy in and reinvest it in yourself, to rejuvenate and attract whatever you desire.

As you do this practice notice the creative power and energy you feel during and in the afterglow. I call this process “In-Coming” and it can be mastered by any man who wants to realize his full potential and willing to replace the urge for immediate gratification with an openness to deliver a deep degree of pleasure and satisfaction to his partner. This can best be achieved when the goal to climax is replaced by the desire to discover a far more fulfilling emotionally experience for both partners! Thus increasing a woman’s ability to experience orgasms through intercourse more reliably and with more connection.

The energy of arousal is like a perpetual river that can potentially with practice, flow from your tip of your Lingam, to the top of your head. Infusing your intentions in this power! As long as you can remain in a state of relaxed arousal, this energy will feed and revitalize you.

So it is indeed good to think with your “small head” when it’s connected and channeling creative energy through all your Chakras. It fills your entire body up to your head with creative energy! Much wisdom can be accessed by connecting this circuit and unleashing the power it holds.

Tantra, aligns all your Chakras in healing waves of pleasure that fill you with exhilarating energy. This can leave you feeling better in the afterglow than when you started! Contrasting with men’s instinctual or primary orgasms where they typically release the energy before it matures. They generally are short-circuited and disperse your potential power prior to being fully realized.

Men who “cum” in this manner usually feel depleted afterwards. To what extent depends upon their age, their vitality and their intentions.

When your intention is to raise your sexual energy and channel it towards positive desires, it rewards you (and your partner, when practicing together) with pleasure-filled, pulsing vitality. This quality of energy invokes profound orgasms that often spark big aha’s moving people to tears and laughter by its awesomeness. This is truly making love magical!

Every cell of your being can be bathed in this bliss which will renew you, strengthen your immune system and accelerate the healing process! This will keep you young and vital. When you understand your creative essence from this standpoint you become a magician whose wand is your divine source of power.

Orgasms of this magnitude, when directed consciously are healing and joyful to themselves and their partners. When men learn to reabsorb their seed, orgasm becomes longer and more engaging with many peaks and valleys!

Rather than just holding back or simply delaying an ejaculation; In-Coming reinvests your creative life forces back inward where you are recharged by this activated essence!

Avoiding ejaculation without transmuting the energy can often lead to a heavy feeling referred to as “blue balls” which can can cause discomfort and frustration. Eventually leading to a less interested lingam, which can atrophy and even possibly contribute to disease and dysfunctions due to denial which leads to stagnation.

This is not that, but rather a productive way to give and receive the most joy and pleasure by prolonging sexual union…

To be continued: The Power of Sexual Transmutation

The first session is a minimum of two hours. This gives us enough time to establish a significant degree of trust, which then allows us to explore the deep levels of intimacy that are inherent in this practice.

Since Tantra prolongs pleasure and extends one’s orgasmic capacity, thus allowing you to experience the nourishing benefits of deep bliss; longer sessions also can be arranged. I recommend booking an extended session especially if it’s not likely that we can meet on a very regular basis.

Pleasure Immersion Experience

Time for you! Be nurtured and get revitalized. Bathed in blissful massage for a whole body reboot!

Live in passion! Immerse in pleasure for a day or more… Your private get-away. Succeed where you channel your turn-on!

PIE will allow you to be totally immersed in pleasure of Tantric bliss all through the night and into the next day.

Golf or Beach combined with pleasure – great combos for the perfect getaway.

We start with energizing practices to fully awaken your body, clear your mind and emotions and prepare you for heightened states of pleasure. Healthy foods, yoga, dancing, bathing and massage awaken your deep, divine delicious, Inner Lover!!

Embark on this journey of awakening your erotic awareness.

Increase the joy in your life with love and laughter in your bedroom!

Experience long-lasting pleasure in love and life.

Enjoy your whole PIE in Tantra Heaven with me!

Stay for a day or a few to fully focus on you to be filled with loving energy.

Enjoy a 2 bd/2ba condo or make other arrangements as you wish. You can stay in the guest room with confirmed full or half day session.

Couples get the Master Suite with a large Jacuzzi tub for heightened pleasure – small fee for rooms, negotiable.

Phone sessions are often a coaching type experience along with some sexy enticements to inspire you to please yourself in tantric ways while I guide you.

It’s the same teachings as in person.  With or without web-cams which provide a visual connection which can sometimes heighten the experience… [though not necessary, as it works both ways].

The only difference is that you are giving to yourself while I give you suggestions that can increase your pleasure potential, relaxing you while feeling aroused.  I can help you last longer.

I’d be happy to give you more detail in a phone consultation and would prefer that first you tell me a bit about yourself and what you are seeking? What do you wish to accomplish, learn or explore?

Give me your number and a few good times to call you along with a brief statement about yourself and I arrange to call you at one of those times.

I look forward to speaking with you and guiding you in discovering expanded bliss.

XOXO Mare

Hi Mare

I came across your details over the net and think that you may be able to help as everything else I’ve tried and am trying has failed.

I’m a 35 year old guy who’s suffered from PE since a teenager and am sick and tired of losing a relationship due to it or even self sabotaging them as its really affected my confidence to the point where i cant get an errection anymore unless i take a blue pill.

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Tantra does more than simply enhance one’s lovemaking skills. It teaches us to be more aware of the life force that is always flowing through us, and how to guide that flow consciously. The more you flow with it, the more it flows to you and through you to energize your life. The high energy flowing through our body and brain is very nourishing, balancing and rejuvenating. And couples who practice Tantra together give each other the gift of life through pleasure and joy. the greatest gift we can give one another, and it’s priceless!  (more…)