Sexual Healing : Why we Need it

I used to be oblivious to the orgasmic potential in my body. Unaware of any pleasure past my clitoris and even that sometimes took more effort than it was worth. For the fleeting few seconds of release. Is that all there is?

Relying on vibrators was addicting and the more I used them the more numb I became. I just didn’t know what I didn’t know, which is a silent epidemic among most women worldwide.

Historically, women have been taught that their bodies are owned by their partner in marriage, to give them satisfaction. Quick and easy, like taking out the trash at the end of the day. So to keep the marriage happy, women like my mom learned to just endure sex. She never really knew its power except as a way to manipulate men to get what she wanted and negotiate she did. Though eventually she turned bitter and stopped playing the game.

The hunger that doesn’t get met, as a result, leaves us starving for the nourishment that somewhere deep inside our body needs to be fed. As a Tantric love coach, I’ve worked with numerous women who cannot orgasm, or so they say. Especially with penetration sex with a partner if he is on his own rhythm woman gets left in the dust as he gallops along to the finishing line.

So why are we not feeling met and what’s missing I’ve asked myself this question so many ways this timely answer comes to me in the awakening of my own great sea of possibilities.  I think I speak for many women when I say that intercourse is not so exciting, kind of numb or even painful when I allow myself to feel without a few drinks to numb out once more… I hear that story time after time and then I realize why women “fake it”. This short-circuits the experience and keeps it at a very low vibrational survival level which causes such a deep void between men and women.

If men only knew where women could take to they would bow on their knees and serve her as the Creatress of life. The womb of a woman is the creative power contained in this stack that can activate into whirlwinds of swirls bursting through the body, in bubbles of light. Exhilarating absolutely! Uplifting and inspiring giving energy and receiving blessings as the gift of the exchange. Tantric orgasm is like tapping into the source of life itself.

We can meet the middle. In a woman’s flow, more slow is often more valuable and rewarding like the rich maturation of a fine wine.

That’s where tantra comes in blending the masculine and feminine energies so we need to heal and understand each other inside and out. Your inner standing connects us to the center where we meet physically, consciously and emotionally as well as physically in the world.

Because when we meet in the middle were both nourished in a way that leaves is better than started like that quality of love is an elixir from the heavens.

So as we think so we experience. On some level I think all women at some point in their life feel these deep yearning desires that don’t get met.

Fleeting is the pleasure that stimulation of the clitoris can bring. As wonderful as it is for those few seconds, then there’s a quick decline in arousal overshadowed by hypersensitivity, where it’s too sensitive to touch for a while. This is much like a man feels after he’s climaxed before he zones out to sleep.

But for women it’s just the beginning of her sexual pleasure potential, even if she doesn’t know anything beyond her clitoris, her love tunnel will nudge her every now and again to remind her that there’s more pleasure inside even if it’s hard to find. That was my experience until I was shown how to discover my Om zone portal of pleasure as a cosmic, multidimensional, richly delicious portal where time stands still in the quivering pulses of life.

Since then I’ve found that a clitoral orgasm is like the doorbell that if you bring it right, it opens the sacred gates for him him him him him for. To get a woman to fully expand and receive the fullest effects of your love, you have got to take your time and activate all her centers and erogenous zones. From the outside in, to all the internal sweet spots too. G-Spot and OMG-Spot in particular.

Tantra says that women can be be multi-orgasmic! That brings up the question why do so many women feel numb, frustrated, and disinterested in sex?

Statistics show us that nearly 70% of women have difficulties achieving a deeply satisfying orgasm with penetration!  Many women are so attached to their clitoral vibrator stimulators that they don’t know what they’re missing on the inside.

Problem with the vibrator is that it creates a short-circuit to pleasure after it reaches a peak and eventually causes more numbness and hyper-sensitivity; unless it’s used very lightly like a hot spice. Many women that I work with tell me that orgasm during intercourse is hit and miss, at best. Often it’s either numb or in some degree of pain.

This can be devastating when we told it’s supposed to be a place of amazing pleasure. Why is it numb???  What’s wrong with this picture! What can we do about it?

It naturally takes women longer to reach their highest pleasure peaks and some may worry that their man won’t last long enough for her to be satisfied and reach her highest heaven inside.

Her concern fuels the problem and makes it all the more challenging, because stress, anxiety, and worry are orgasms enemies. They activate the fight or flight response which you don’t want in the bedroom.

Men are hard-wired to naturally come quick to insure that they sow their seeds and procreate the species. So when testosterone is high the urge to release is very difficult to control. But Tantra has a solution for that to train a man to expand and become more multi-orgasmic too!

But to reach the most sublime states of intimacy, men need to learn how to at least slow down and enjoy the journey more, so his Queen can relax and receive more deeply.

I can identify with this as I was one of many women who couldn’t reliably climax with a partner. I felt broken with frustration, pressure and anxiety which exasperated the situation.

It burdens the relationship when women put this responsibility entirely their partner to be their healer and awakener. Yet it’s been a part of our cultural conditioning that men take the initiative in sex.  In this case learning to read her body language is essential as the body expressions and positions can say much more than words. Breath and sounds of her body are good cues to follow. When you breath in sync, you start to feel each other more.

Then enter the realm of sounds and see what unfolds…

Unless your partner is a trained sexual healer, it’s important for women know her own body enough that she can tap into her O-Zone within her body. Share it. Invest in it so it may grow.

Then she can educate her partner, if he’s willing to follow her lead.  I can assure you it’s worth the journey even if it feels vulnerable and scary. That’s when the deepest transformations can take place.

Here’s a massage tool that can help open the gates of Heaven by releasing and dearmoring numbness and pain, with conscious love.

Cervix wand-  Click on the image to see more….

Click on this link to see this tool and how to get it for yourself. Or for a friend...

Click on this link to see this tool and how to get it for yourself. Or for a friend…

Classes in Tantra Touch for Healing and Empowerment coming this Fall, 2022 

S£X Reimagined – What is Possible?

I discovered profoundly DEEP states within me along with new depths of expanding O’s. I’m delighted to say that I never stop learning. 

So, I’m super excited to announce that I’ll be sharing much more on that in this great gathering of Sexperts. I invite you to join us and learn from the best!

S£x Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd, AND it’s FREE!!

I’m sharing my most recent and passionate discoveries around cervical orgasms, as part of it, Stay tuned to find out more. (Or just reply and I’ll tell you more, privately.)

So, if you are feeling stuck or at a loss for inspiration in your intimate life…

Have you been having routine s£x, unsatisfying s£x, or no s£x at all for far too long?

I’ve got a solution for you! It’s all about reimagining what’s possible when it comes to your s£xuality.

I was recently invited to speak on an interview series, on Cervical Orgasms as a Portal to Profound Pleasure! This interview series is one that I know is going to make a huge impact on the way we as human beings relate to our s£xuality.

And because this is my next level, I thought it was so perfect to share this publicly for the first time on the S£x Reimagined Summit.

Let me introduce you to the Hosts of the event: Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Collectively they bring over 40 years of experience, as they blend the ancient arts of Tantra Yoga and Taoist S£xology.

Dr. Willow and Leah are birthing the S£x Reimagined Summit (followed by ongoing Podcasts).

Our aim is to inspire, reignite and reimagine what it means for you to have a thriving love life, because they know it’s the fastest, most pleasurable path to healing your body and soul.

They’ve brought together over 20+ leading S£xsperts, so that you can hear a myriad of perspectives, ideas and possibilities when it comes to expanding your s£xual repetior!

I’m so excited to speak at THIS summit!

Myself along with the 20+ other speakers will be opening up a conversation about how we can reimagine our relationship to s£x, how we talk about it, how we think about it and how we approach it. Share this event with your friends!

The fun begins JULY 11th- 22nd, AND if you enroll now, it’s FREE!

You will get access to all the leading Sexperts in the field of health, sexuality and spirituality.

Guest S£xperts Include:

Charles Muir (Originator of Sacred Spot Massage)

Alison Armstrong (Author & originator of Celebrating Men Understanding Women)

Ian Ferguson (Master Trainer of Erotic Blueprint)

Emiliya Zhivotovskaya (founder of the flourishing Institute of NY)

Sheri Winston (Author of Anatomy of Arousal)

Mare Simone, (Sex Coach & Initiatress of the Sacred Tantric Arts)

Plus 15 others!

For a full list of all the Powerful S£xperts click here.

Join us in this juicy conversation

ENROLL HERE, Free to Join!

So you can enjoy it from the privacy of your own home.

See you there!! Mare

S£X Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd

Got lot’s of TLC to share, let’s re-connect and reimagine…

I retreated from the outer world so I could discover ways to recreate myself to adjust to the “new normal.” I found a sanctuary of inner peace and balance that energizes me [and my clients]. It uplifts me and keeps me sane even in the midst of chaos.

I took a course on cervical orgasms as gateways to access my high self! It was so fun and I learned things about my body that I didn’t know.

After all these years I’m still discovering hidden treasures of pleasure. Amazing right!?

Beyond anything I ever felt from Sacred spot [aka: G-spot] and clitoral O’s combined.

I discovered profoundly DEEP states within me along with new depths of expanding O’s. I’m delighted to say that I never stop learning. 

So, I’m super excited to announce that I’ll be sharing much more on that in this great gathering of Sexperts. I invite you to join us and learn from the best!

S£X Reimagined Summit — JULY 11th- 22nd, AND it’s FREE!!

I’m sharing my most recent and passionate discoveries around cervical orgasms, as part of it, Stay tuned to find out more. (Or just reply and I’ll tell you more, privately.)

So, if you are feeling stuck or at a loss for inspiration in your intimate life…

Have you been having routine s£x, unsatisfying s£x, or no s£x at all for far too long?

I’ve got a solution for you! It’s all about reimagining what’s possible when it comes to your s£xuality.

I was recently invited to speak on an interview series, on Cervical Orgasms as a Portal to Profound Pleasure! This interview series is one that I know is going to make a huge impact on the way we as human beings relate to our s£xuality.

And because this is my next level, I thought it was so perfect to share this publicly for the first time on the S£x Reimagined Summit.

Let me introduce you to the Hosts of the event: Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Collectively they bring over 40 years of experience, as they blend the ancient arts of Tantra Yoga and Taoist S£xology.

Dr. Willow and Leah are birthing the S£x Reimagined Summit (followed by ongoing Podcasts).

Our aim is to inspire, reignite and reimagine what it means for you to have a thriving love life, because they know it’s the fastest, most pleasurable path to healing your body and soul.

They’ve brought together over 20+ leading S£xsperts, so that you can hear a myriad of perspectives, ideas and possibilities when it comes to expanding your s£xual repetior!

I’m so excited to speak at THIS summit!

Myself along with the 20+ other speakers will be opening up a conversation about how we can reimagine our relationship to s£x, how we talk about it, how we think about it and how we approach it. Share this event with your friends!

The fun begins JULY 11th- 22nd, AND if you enroll now, it’s FREE!

You will get access to all the leading Sexperts in the field of health, sexuality and spirituality.

Guest S£xperts Include:

Charles Muir (Originator of Sacred Spot Massage)

Alison Armstrong (Author & originator of Celebrating Men Understanding Women)

Ian Ferguson (Master Trainer of Erotic Blueprint)

Emiliya Zhivotovskaya (founder of the flourishing Institute of NY)

Sheri Winston (Author of Anatomy of Arousal)

Mare Simone, (Sex Coach & Initiatress of the Sacred Tantric Arts)

Plus 15 others!

For a full list of all the Powerful S£xperts click here.

Join us in this juicy conversation

ENROLL HERE, Free to Join!

So you can enjoy it from the privacy of your own home.

See you there!! Mare

3 Keys to Empower Your Queen

3 Essential Keys that will open a woman’s Mind, Heart, and, Yoni together.

Presence – Patience – Power

Presence:  For most women, arousal starts with the heart. She yearns to feel a connection that lets her know that she is seen and honored. Even when honoring the Queen within yourself, it’s essential to be fully present with your body so you can experience the more subtle and profound sensations.

When a man is in his head fantasizing he is not present. Nor is thinking about anything that distracts him from feeling, to avoid cuming too soon…  the key element of connection gets lost.

Without connection sex is reduced is mutual masturbation which reduces the experience to mere physical friction to get off;  instead of nurturing a loving connection.

The more beautiful and cherished a woman feels, in the eyes of her beloved, the more able she is to blossom fully in the warmth of love. I’ve experienced that when I’m fully present to being seen by my partner that awareness sends incredible tingling pleasure, like sparkling champagne bubbles up from my yoni to my crown.

The amazing thing is that this can occur sometimes even without physical touch because it blossoms from the emotion of feeling connection inside first. The excitement that stirs is so rich in its mysterious alluring depths, that it sparks energy even without touch.

From that state physical touch becomes supercharged and penetration pierces straight through to the heart like cupid’s arrow. Just knowing that she is valued and loved unconditionally helps her to relax and feel safe enough to open wide. Uneducated men often do what feels good to them which is a rapid thrusting of a woman’s vagina which can feel incredible at the right time and painful when she’s not open.

This has caused many women to shut down and resist sex because when she’s not receptive in order to protect that which she holds sacred. Like a flower, you can’t force her to open on demand. There’s an energetic opening that occurs when a woman receives her beloved into her heart.

Hard thrusting can be incredibly orgasmic, when she’s open she will naturally invite deep penetration to open completely and receive your wildest passions.

Deep to the core of her being to her os and beyond, where life literally comes from. Os is the opening of a woman’s womb. I call it the O-zone. O for opening, because whether or not she has still a womb, the opening to the source up the spine and through the kundalini channel remains energetically present.

An artist of loving touch can encourage a woman to open and discover places she never knew existed! With care, every stroke can build waves of arousal that slowly but steadily flood the body with bliss.

And to do that requires patience:

Patience.  I encourage my clients to explore themselves to find their own rhythm and pace that fuels luxuriously delicious to them so that when met with their partner, they can knowingly guide them to slow down enough so that she may tune in to her pleasurable depths.

This is especially important in the early stages of arousal when the desire is just beginning to stir.

Start slowly to awaken her desire by arousing all of her erogenous zones. Make an effort to explore more than the primaries because each erogenous zone holds its unique hidden pleasures. And they’re all delicious to discover which increases arousal and the desire for deep intimate bonding in total surrender

Delve deep enough to discover os pleasures that are possible yet dormant in every woman. Yearning to be awakened.

Women blossom best when they can relax d-e-e-p-l-y and let their bodies respond and open to the delicate sensations of opening all the layers of her desire, she then oozes the fragrant essence of the goddess.

Breathe deep together and feel the sensations grow from subtle to sublime!

If you don’t know what they need at the moment, as they’re always different… ASK! Don’t be afraid to explore. It’s fun to discover pleasure together and it empowers your partner to be your Sex-God!

A man who loves you is happiest when he can make you happy!   So don’t be shy or afraid to ask what your body needs. Learn to listen to your body and guide your partner so you can co-create a win.

She/He will thank you!

Make it an adventure to discover and transform numbness into pleasure. Pain and sadness when released and resolved can turn into clear light energy! That’s exciting! Healing and rejuvenating, it doesn’t have to be hard to let go of the past trauma when there is a love net that supports you. You can learn to create that love net so that you’re always protected from within. When you’re not the victim, you can reclaim your pleasure beyond your wildest dreams. And why wouldn’t you?

If you or someone you know yearns to feel more deeply, I am creating a course with coaching just for you. Because when you’re in a safe container supported but ones who know the way, you can grow exponentially feeling secure enough to break out of the patterns that block you repeatedly.

As we mirror each other, we are reminded of our divine essence seen in the eyes of clear ones who love you unconditionally. See you for your fullest potential and who you are meant to be who you can become and help you hold that space until you fully embody it. I take a stand for you evolving into all that you desire to be.

You can learn techniques of sexual healing that you can use when trauma is activated.  This is discussed in-depth in group programs. Private coaching, in-person or virtual seminars up to Certified Education at the Source School of Tantra. You can find many trained teachers here and lots of great content. So get support if it becomes overwhelming.

Women’s vaginas are like flowers! Before they blossom they need warmth and time to open naturally with desire!!

If there are glitches in her ability to feel fully responsive, which may be felt as pain or numbness instead of pleasure, know that those are wounds coming up from the past that can be healed in the power of the present.

Power: Imagine what life would be like if you were told when you were young, that you have a magic wand between your legs. This wand can light your path of illumination clarity and the desire to awaken your woman’s body and do amazing things to her; which will light you up even more. Also true for a man who loves to love men.

This wand of light and tremendous power can be a great teacher and healer.  So listen, honor, and learn from it wisely.

Here’s a tip to help you spread potent pleasure throughout your whole body.

Imagine that your erection is connected from your base up your spine.

Orgasms can rise up to your crown when your spine when it’s flowing without obstructions. Practicing yoga, stretching and massage are all valuable to help you clear the blocks and transmute.

Many of us are heavy with muscle memories that cause tension and stress which prevent us from feeling full body pleasure. Through massage and active movement of the spine, you can begin to raise your orgasmic ability.

My client tells me that it’s like having a full body erection!  6 feet instead of 6 inches gives you a lot more room for pleasure to expand.

So hold the vision of pleasure rising up your spine and when you feel arousal breathe it up your spine… while moving your spine to invite the sensation of pleasure inward and upward!

The benefits of this are vast as it rises it nourishes the organs in your body. Ancient Taoists and Tantric and others have known this for ages. It’s time we all awaken and discover the power of pleasure within our whole bodies.

Your thoughts are your greatest erotic trigger. So instead of fantasizing to get off, try this out instead. Visualize your erotic energy as healing light. Let it fill your belly.

Breathe deeply inviting pleasure to rise inward, opening yourself to be filled with rejuvenating life forces!

Try connecting arousal throughout your body, or to any part that ails you for healing energy to be delivered there.

You will find that your wand starts to have a wider range of sensations which helps you last longer.  And live longer with a whole lot more love and laughter!

If you’d like more guidance in this journey of awakening, I would love to support your quest!

I offer private coaching and forming a group this fall. Please inquire if you’re interested.

 

 

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I need helpers who love left brain technology to help me so I can broadcast live events on multiple platforms simultaneously while staying in my juicy genius zone of teaching and delivering with turned on creative fire.

Passion and desire to learn Tantra and sacred sexuality is a definite plus!

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Their affiliate program is super generous, two-tiered win-wins.

Groove has a free version of every feature so you can test drive it.

You can even host up to 3 websites on their server for free!

Use my affiliate link and we will both benefit, if you or someone you know joins the paid version, [we will both get paid, sharing the wealth]. You can still earn commissions, even if you just have a free version of the program.

SO If you [or someone you know] find this kind of technology fun and easy; let’s connect. ASAP!!

I’m able to pay and I willing to offer Tantra sessions in exchange. Arrangements personalized, based on your skill sets, needs and desires.

Please reply with what you feel your best at doing; and what you need / desire, in exchange for your services. We’ll arrange to speak accordingly.

If you got questions respond here, or email me: Mare@MareSimone.com

 

Tantra for Women – Awaken the Beauty Within

“Deflowering” and “losing” your virginity are common terms that negatively describe the awakening of a woman’s sacred chambers of creation, love, and pleasure.

“Re-Flowering” empowers Your Yoni as a Sacred Temple of Love, to reclaim its original state of purity; free of trauma, shame, pain, or fear.

I feel called to gather a core group of women who wish to grow, heal and explore the sacred spaces within, in a safe container of woman only. I am also called to give couples events and coaching, as needed.

  • We’ll discuss love, desire, pleasure, orgasms, and sexual issues.
  • Yoni Talk – Women Healing Women by exploring our depths together.
  • Learn Tantra and Tao Healing techniques that recharge you and fill you with light energy!
  • Learn and explore with practices to help you access your deepest O.
  • Take-away luscious discoveries while awakening your sexuality
  • Tantric pleasures heal and awaken you. Meet new friends too!

Join our woman’s group and get private invitations to:

CLASSES and PRIVATE SESSIONS for women.
Bring your friends, lovers and others who would enjoy this community.

If you desire more personal support:
Apply here: TantraMare@Gmail.com.
Women. Men. Couples and Groups

Virtually & in Los Angeles, CA.

Travel options are road trips.

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