Cervical Orgasms -Why 70% of Women don’t have them?

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Mysteries of the Deep Orgasmic Magical  Zone

At the back of the womb there lay flesh that demanded to be penetrated. It curved inwards, opening to suck. The flesh walls moved like a sea anemones, seeking by suction to draw his sex in… She opened her mouth as if to reveal the openness of the womb, its hunger, and only then did he plunge to the very bottom and felt her contractions…” Anais Nin, Delta of Venus

As a pleasure explorer, yearning to heal from rapes and the numbness from years of premature penetration, I’ve experienced a wide range from pleasure to pain and numbness. From numb back through [phantom] pain now to reclaim pleasure, better than ever!

Along my way, I found places of amazing pleasure inside. So deep even I didn’t know it was there. when I broke through that I discovered a It is a place of deep openness and surrender which requires trust.
My level of trust was limited then so I struggled. Orgasm felt close and then for some reason it would slip away. Or I got afraid to let go,
it seemed the harder I tried, the more elusive vaginal orgasm became.  It frustrated me to feel something good for a minute. Then it was gone.
I could feel fleeting clitoral peaks, but they are not very satisfying alone, in the long run. I was shown how to find my G spot. It continues to come alive over the years.
Penetration sex was my edge. I was usually guarded from unreleased traumas that inhibited me from being present to pleasure. So much so, my partner would constantly say to me, “be present.” But being present to me, often meant feeling pain with penetration.
I was a hot mess!  I’ve had some serious trauma surrounding my sexuality and my sex organs. Including medical procedures.
My cervix was a scary place to me.
I touched my cervix with my fingers the first time the other day.
It was a surprise because I didn’t know if they were even long enough to reach the depths of my vagina.
The uterus moves and adjusts downward to meet a point of penetration which intensifies sensations. Some called this the cervical kiss. Various positions help facilitate the most satisfying contact sometimes with a woman squatting on top to find the right depth of contact and angle…
It was exciting to meet it directly and to be so intimate with this part of me I rarely see.
It was delicate and intimate. I will visit again in a squatting position. Cupping… so it’s easy to reach.
Hmmm just speaking of it makes me feel electrified it’s like a motor inside gets flipped on when attention is brought to it in an honoring inviting way. Memories of pleasure lie deep within my yoni walls, deep to the core. Calling in explorers to dive deep with me, in Tantric seas!
What hides in your love tunnel that needs to be cleared? Lets clear it. Make room for love and pleasure there and everywhere.
I need to  get real, vulnerable and intimate with you ’cause I gotta tell you something that recently I have experienced some really deep orgasm’s that I feel have transformed my mind and body relationship.
There were a few rare, mind blowing experiences where I learned to really open up and relax inside. It was then when I noticed that I had been chronically contracted, protecting what was violated.  My history of rape and numbingsex molded my relationship to my body and relationships with men as well.

Sexual trauma can shut us down from knowing and enjoying our bodies to their fullest potential. It’s crippling!

In women our deepest longest and strongest orgasms come from opening and being touched in the deepest parts, so I am finding.  This pleasure fills my pelvic bowl and overflows right up into my crown and down again.
Then the experience of sex becomes a cleansing, clearing the past. Calling in and blessing whatever your body needs feel and receive.
I went through the layers over years of sexual healing until my yoni was fully open and orgasmic.
It was amazing like something inside me woke up and I was filled with waves and tingles with even the slightest movements with full penetration.
The most remarkable thing was he could feel what I was feeling which increased my feelings.
We were bonded in this unified field of energy tingles! He called it Tai Chi sex. Deep slow and sensual with a timeless sense of relaxed arousal. Then we split up.
Now I’m exploring my own depths. Lately using crystal wands to awaken the deepest parts of my cave. To massage away scar tissue or phantom pain. The last time I did this I felt some tender areas and so I moved very slowly. Sometimes still allowing the tension to soften.
It’s like a field with rich realms of possibilities. I never know what I’m gonna find in here. It’s still new to me to feel this extraordinary pleasure inside. Being more clitoral and G spot focused, this is opening up a new world. I wanna share it from the rooftops so everyone knows about it too!!
Cont. in part 2…

Yoni Wisdom and Deep Pleasures

To feel inside of a woman with your soul, feel first with your touch, breath, lips, tongue and tones. If you’re a good fit for her lock, she may open the depths of her being to you. Open to her core, as deep as she can receive to her ecstasy fully! What wondrous mysteries women can awaken within!? When we feel safe enough to be free… to open fully and let a conscious man into our deepest most vulnerable parts we can be in hours of bliss within Then sex becomes a luscious meditation.
When Pleasure is Pain
Some women feel pain deep inside with deep hard penetration all the way in, to the cervix. This is especially true if thrusting is rigorous and she’s not relaxed.
 
Be patient and allow the release to unfold. If tears arise pour love into her eyes and kiss those tears or something equally romantic and loving. Whatever you do, don’t give her a tissue right away and tell her to stop crying.
 
Making love is a profound medicine for our heart if we can be conscious with our eyes open and see feel here and absorb the love that were receiving.
 
Sometimes it brings up everything unlike itself in order to be healed. That’s part of the process, stay with her and understand that it’s not about you. Give her room to rage if she needs, for a minute or two.
 
But don’t linger long in the darkness. Recognize its value for bringing you here and now and bring her back with love, let her know you and there for her. Holding space for her to let go.
 
Even if you don’t fully understand what’s coming up, you don’t have to. It still helps if you encourage her to make some noise and release stuck energy without judgment.
 
Pour love into the painful places and be patient. The deepest spot is also a place where we harbor emotions of trauma and shame, buried in the darkest parts of our sex-tunnel[s]. That includes the base chakra as well
 
With tender words of love and eye contact, intend to replace those phantom fears with conscious present love. It’s a deep spot no doctor can touch. A beloved [Tantric healer] can touch this cervix Om-Zone in the ways that can transform past pains with positive, orgasmic even ecstatic best ever transformational feelings.
 
You can also bless and awaken these dark painful places with a blessed wand of light. This could be any type of wand. Even a peeled cucumber will do. I like to use a hand-carved phallus of rose quartz for love.
 
Massage the painful areas gently and slow with stillness pauses often to soften tight tissue and release memories of fear and pain. Forgive your body for holding those memories for so long. Release them in the exhale and breathe in love.
 
It may be time to say so long to old armored past phantom pain, which no longer serves you.
 
Choose to let love in starting with forgiveness and acceptance of yourself.
 
Self healing through self love is an important and powerful part of the process. You may also require a guide to support you through the darkest parts.
 
Or to give you a kick start, at some point along the way. Sometimes it’s hard to see our own shadow in the proper perspective
 
I used to have that issue big time, until I learned to relax completely. Which takes trust and the ability to relax and soften, breathe and relax even move through the pain and numbness by opening to present love.
 
Letting go makes room to feel who you really are after you start to release the past.
 
Pain often transforms hidden pleasures unveiled.
 
The release of all that tension becomes energy freed up to expand and exhilarate! Pulsing pleasure as sacred medicine.
 
I find the most profound soulful gasms occur when I can fully relax and able to open to full penetration without an ounce of resistance.
 
So I’ve learned and love to teach…
 

Juicy Goddess Gathering ~ Tantra Talk, Yoga, Dance & Ecstatic Breath for Women!!

Juicy Goddess Gathering: Sat MARCH 21st — 3rd Sat of every month in LA 2:00pm – 4pm
Tantra Goddess/Girl-Talk and experiential practices to heal, awaken and activate our Bliss Bodies.

Discussing deep topics of love, massage and sexual healing. Tantra sex tips. Fire Breath Orgasm, Amrita, Sacred Spot Massage and more… Gathering women who would like to meet regularly; to do deep inner work as a core group. As well as participate in co-ed gatherings, retreats and more.

Come with an open heart to explore and discuss women’s mysteries, magic and Tantric energy… Leave with treasures and new friends!
>> We’ll gather from 3 Meetup groups, so sign-ups are spreadout…

This gathering is for Women only because I want to get to know you and expand my women’s Tantra tribe with more local ladies. We will begin with a monthly intro, and see where this goes.

I also offer an event for men and women just after this gathering. Feel free to invite your friends and lovers!

• BRING:
$20 – Donation –
For more info or Register here
2 for 1 – Bring a Friend!

SEEKING: Locations. If you’d like to host an event and get lots of benefits, hugs and good karma, please let me know.
I’m actively seeking ideal compatible, environments some local and some getaways. Beginning humbly in my home to keep it cozy and intimate.

PS: HELP WANTED: TECH, IT Help in organizing and promoting Meetup events. Volunteers – Meet the community and get private time with me.

ASSISTANTS: Savvy Social Media markerting, Email, Newsletter etc. Local or Virtual! Volunteer possible salary.

Re-Flowering: Women Transforming Sex ~ Sacred Sisterhood

 

Monthly!  3rd Saturday of the month. 

Nurturing Tantra-Time for Women Only

Yoni Puja is a ritual to clear your past and re-awaken your sacred flower as your Source of pleasures, wisdom and Creative Energy.

“Deflowering” is a term used to describe “losing” one’s virginity. Two negative terms to describe the awakening of a woman’s sacred chambers of creation.

“ReFlowering”  honors and re-awaken Your Sacred Temple  to its original state of pure unity; free of trauma, shame or fear.

Tantric meditations with flowers, fruits and mudras [power positions of the hands] are used to activate this energy; fully clothed. Or not.

  • Come with an open heart to heal, explore and discuss sexuality
  • Share in Women’s mysteries, magic and delicious possibilities.
  • Leave with luscious discoveries with a new view of yourself.
    Tantric shifts that stay with you. Meet some new friends too!
  •  At a private residence LA, CA USA: address given upon registration
    $15 in advance $20 at door | 2 for 1 – Bring a Friend Free!

Confirm your space hereRe-Flowering

Refunds are offered as credit for any classes, other events or coaching sessions providing you inform Mare by text ASAP. Space is limited.  If you need to cancel please text ASAP.

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