Do you, or someone you love, struggle to let go… chasing after orgasms?

OR – Do you/they disconnect, disassociate or simply zone-out during sex?

Do you sometimes feel Pain or Numb, during Sex?  Have you or your partner ever been a victim of sexual violation, rape or domestic violence? I’ve worked with many cases where these symptoms, are signs of unresolved sexual trauma.

Physical or verbal abuses can cause blocks to pleasure and orgasms, even with loving advances, from your current partner.

Abuse leaves an imprint in our memory that can render us disconnected from feelings of love.  We “check-out” to avoid the memories which obstructs present time intimacy. This is a common shield to block and try to forget the past. The problem is these shields prevent us from feeling, even when we desire intimacy.

Traumatizing experiences leave imprints of fear that block us from feeling physical or emotional connections. Even years later with another partner, the memories of abuse linger in the cells of our body  until they are discharged.

This cellular memory, also referred to as muscle memory creates patterns of tension based on how we responded to sex. 

These negative imprints need to be discharged in order to make space for more positive ones.  Like a “sexorcism”, first removing the ghosts of trauma past. Then you can have a total Sex Life Makeover and be free to love with your whole body, heart and soul.

I know this process firsthand, because I’ve been through the fire of transformation myself. And I’ve developed the compassion and capability to help thousands of others.  In my 30 years of being in service and dedicated to sexual healing I’ve helped men and women to transform their pain and numbness of shame, into life-changing pleasure.

I help couples as well as individuals address trauma related sexual issues. This work has created massive interest and opportunities for me to reach numerous men and women, who want and need my help.