Throughout my profession as an Intimacy Coach I have witnessed thousands of men, women and couples learn to open their hearts and truly connect with one another more authentically, both in and out of bed. The afterglow that springs forth from this degree of intimate connection can last a lifetime!

Statistics tell us that over 70% of women are not easily orgasmic through intercourse and more than 60% of men would like to be able to last-longer in order to more deeply satisfy his partner. But the fact is men are hard-wired to procreate and most men don’t know how to relax while they are aroused long enough for their partners to fully enjoy to their highest potential. So most women are left feeling a sense of frustration and eventually loose interest in sex.

More than tips on how to have more fun in bed, although it will be a fun and profound adventure for anyone who embarks on this journey… it’s really about love, making love. And how to make love last longer and more fulfilling in every way. Because it starts in the heart. When our hearts and other parts are happy and satisfied, we attract success in all areas of life.

I envision a book which includes website with a community of coaches who offer a few hrs a week to provide free support, coaching and teachings. We will record and archive these sessions and create a library of real sessions as ongoing free sessions to be documented.

My high intention is to create a series like this that will help lovers, make love more consciously through the union of ancient and modern sexual wisdom. We will offer Tantra blended with intimate communication skills and emotional release techniques. We draw from a pool of methods that are highly effective in resolving past issues of love and sexuality which may block ones ability to connect deeply with a lover in present time. 

The group helps people learn and heal by experience of their own or vicariously by witnessing others learn intimacy skills. 

CASTING for couples who would like to be documented, while exploring, having fun and having breakthroughs in loving better!  Be willing to  be truthful, open to learn, share and grow with the group, with yourself and your partner. 

We also welcome other Love Coaches and Sex Therapists to join and participate.  Post text, video or audio case histories and share your processes with the group.  Start a discussion and share your gifts…

It’s so incredibly powerful to witness someone experience personal growth in ways that & transform their lives. This online community provides support from Qualified Coaches and Therapists. As well as to friends, family and others who are drawn to this journey. Join us to support and witness the power of conscious loving in action!

Monique and Nate Darling are the first couple and helped inspire this vision through the process of documenting their progress with learning to love each other more playfully.  Their story is so moving, they love to share and they do it well. 

I’m feel compelled to support them in their progress to help their love soar.  I hope you will join us! Please share whatever you feel called to. Pictures, words, funds etc, as are all appreciated. 

The Darlings were featured with me on Nationwide TV – on TLC,  The Learning Channel this Spring season 2011! 

Stay tuned as they continued to evolve and grow a lot since the shoot, in JAN, 2011.

Seeking webmaster to design and help maintain the site in exchange for tantra sessions!

“It has been a month since we met and you assisted my wife and I through an amazing 4 hour session. The consultation relaxed us and made us feel “right at home” in no time at all. You gave my wife the information to let go of the past and live (and love) in the present.
She was very impressed (as was I) with the results and what her body can do for her when she allows these things to happen. She was smiling for days on end following our session. For this, we will always be grateful for the time and talents that were shared with us.
Thank you again, we are well on our way on the road to happiness and loving each more than ever. We plan on continuing this journey and will keep you posted in our progress. Until next time my dear, Thank you so much…..”

After being married to this man for 11 years.  She had her 1st orgasm ever in that time!  Second and third as well!  I am proud of them.  Mare

October was devoted to Breast Awareness.  Inspired by American Cancer Society’s “Breast Awareness Month” I decided to put a lot of loving attention and positive awareness on my breasts throughout the month.

I had the amazing opportunity to taste human mother’s milk for the first time when at Tantra Palooza – a 4-day workshop in San Diego.  She was lactating and her baby was not there to nurse so she offered me a taste.  I was so moved by that gesture that I asked her if I could share this precious nectar with the attendees of the class I was teaching that afternoon on Breast massage.  She was very willing to share and even spoke of her experiences with Orgasmic Birthing!!! [see the movie trailer here]

We were all blessed by this gift and some moved to tears.

This month was very significant for me in numerous profound and delicious ways.  (more…)

In the first year of my tantra training

I shared an intensive week with 30 others at a tantra boot camp in the magnetic red rocks of Sedona, Arizona.     We transformed  a former Chinese restaurant with crimson dragons that greet you, waterfalls and gardens to delight your senses… , into a luscious Tantra temple.    Together we did some life transforming work that week.

We were guided in many ‘clearing and reclaiming power’ exercises over the course of 7 days and nights.  Men were encouraged to exercise and nourish their libido by getting aroused and sustaining it for longer and longer periods of time; without ejaculating for the entire week.

Playing at the edge without going over, allowed men to expand their capacity and range for pleasure.  The sexual tension created so much testosterone I was dripping with excitement.

The Big O was an intense prolonged peak which filled me was so much energy it electrified me.

It not only gave us amazing, expanded orgasms together but it instilled an exuberance the continued on days later.  This kind of orgasm leaves a lasting impact of being recharged and reborn!  (more…)